克里希那穆提：大脑能否抹去一切创伤，并且绝不再受伤？
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2024-06-30 05:59
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今天来重温一段克里希那穆提关于创伤的阐述，内容如下 ——Now, most of us from childhood have been hurt, have been wounded, not only physically, but psychologically. You are hurt, aren't you? And that is a great distorting factor in our observation.我们多数人从童年开始就受过伤，不只是身体上的，更是心理上的。你受伤了，不是吗？它在极大地扭曲我们的观察。
If I am hurt from childhood, the result of that hurt is that I resist, that I build a wall round myself. I am frightened to be hurt more, so I withdraw, isolate myself or I escape from that hurt into something else.如果我从童年起就受过伤，伤的结果是我抵触，为自己建起一道围墙。我害怕受更多伤，所以退缩、隔绝，或是为了逃避，躲进其它事情。So the hurt, unless it is totally, completely wiped out, is a factor of distortion in our life. Right? Do you see that?所以，创伤，除非完全地、彻底地抹掉，否则便是我们生活中一个扭曲的因素，对吗？你看到了吗？That is, in school you are compared with another boy. You are not as clever as that boy. At home they say you are not as clever as your elder brother or your father. So comparison is one of the factors of getting hurt. Do please see it. Because that's what you are doing with your children. 在学校里，你被拿来和另一个孩子比较，你不如他聪明。在家里，他们说，你不如你的兄弟或父亲聪明。所以，比较是让心受伤的事实之一。一定要看到这点，因为这可能是你正在对你的孩子所做的事。So can that hurt from childhood be wiped away and never to be hurt again? 所以，从儿时起的创伤，能否被彻底抹去，而且绝不再受伤？You don't say, 'I am not hurt', I am hurt, but if you examine very closely yourself, about yourself, you will find you are deeply wounded, deeply, psychologically hurt.你不会说，我没有受伤，或我受伤了。但如果你仔细地审视自己，理解自己，你就会发现，你受过很深的伤，在心理上，伤得很深。Hurt comes when there is comparison, which is a fact. When you compare the boy with somebody else you are hurting the boy or the girl.有比较，就有伤害，这是一个事实。当你把一个孩子和其他人比较的时候，你就在伤害这个男孩或女孩。You may try to conceal it, or say, 'I am not hurt', and pretend you are not hurt, but basically when there is comparison, imitation, conformity, there must be hurt.你可能会掩饰，或者说，我没有受伤，或者假装你没有受伤，但是根本上，只要有比较、模仿、遵从，就一定有伤害。And when there is hurt, human beings do the most extraordinary things. One of the reasons of this violence in the world is this deep hurt of human beings.伤害发生的时候，人类会做出最超乎寻常的事情。这个世界暴力的根源之一，就是人类深层的创伤。can these hurts be wiped away and the mind, brain, never be hurt?
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