Selena Gomez says she ‘can’t carry my own children,’ but remains optimistic about starting a family
赛琳娜·戈麦斯自爆“永远无法生孩子”，但仍对成家持乐观态度
Selena Gomez says that she plans to become a mother by age 35 and that she likely will turn to surrogacy or adoption.
赛琳娜·戈麦斯说，她计划在35岁之前成为一名母亲，她可能会代孕或领养。
“I haven’t ever said this, but I unfortunately can’t carry my own children,” the 32-year-old actor, singer and beauty brand executive revealed in a Vanity Fair October cover story. “I have a lot of medical issues that would put my life and the baby’s in jeopardy. That was something I had to grieve for a while.”
这位32岁的演员、歌手兼美容品牌高管在《名利场》10月份的封面故事中透露:“我从未说过，但很遗憾，我无法怀上自己的孩子。我很多的身体问题可能会危及我和孩子的生命，这让我万分难过。”
In July, Gomez received her first Emmy nomination in an acting category for her portrayal of Mabel Mora in the Hulu comedy “Only Murders in the Building.” The Disney-raised multihyphenate also appears in “Emilia Perez,” a Spanish-language musical, with Zoe Saldana—slated for release in November in select theaters and on Netflix.
今年7月，戈麦斯因在Hulu喜剧《大楼里只有谋杀》中饰演Mabel Mora一角而首次获得艾美奖表演类提名。这位在迪士尼长大的多栖明星还与佐伊·索尔达娜（Zoe Saldana）合作出演了西班牙语音乐剧《艾米利亚·佩雷斯》（Emilia Perez），该剧将于11月在精选影院和Netflix上映。
“It’s not necessarily the way I envisioned it,” she said, referring to starting a family. “I thought it would happen the way it happens for everyone. [But] I’m in a much better place with that. I find it a blessing that there are wonderful people willing to do surrogacy or adoption, which are both huge possibilities for me.”
她在谈到组建家庭时说：“这不一定是我想象的那样。我以为每个人都会这样，但现在我的情况好多了。我觉得有很多人愿意代孕或领养是一件幸事，这对我来说都是机会。”
Before her current relationship with collaborator and prolific producer Benny Blanco, Gomez was single for five years. This period, she says, helped her prioritize family and prompted her to evaluate how she could start one of her own.
在与合伙人兼多产制片人本尼·布兰科交往之前，戈麦斯单身了五年。她说，这段时期她把家庭放在首位，并考虑如何组建自己的家庭。
The “Wizards of Waverly Place” actor spoke on the topic of pregnancy with Rolling Stone back in 2022, saying then that her bipolar medications made carrying a child unlikely and adding: “That’s a very big, big, present thing in my life. ... However I’m meant to have them [children], I will.”
早在2022年，这位《少年魔法师》（《少年魔法师》是2007年迪士尼频道制作的原创电视系列剧，由赛琳娜主演。）主演在《滚石》杂志上谈到过怀孕的话题，当时她说，躁郁症药物让她无法怀上孩子，并补充说：“这是我生命中非常重要的一件事……无论如何，我都会有自己的（孩子）。”
In her 20s, the performer had been to four treatment centers for her mental health. By 2019, she had been diagnosed with bipolar disorder after experiencing an episode of psychosis.
20多岁时，她曾因精神健康问题去过四家治疗中心。2019年，在一次精神病发作后，她被诊断出躁郁症。
“I think when I started hitting my early twenties is when it started to get really dark, when I started to feel like I was not in control of what I was feeling, whether that was really great or really bad,” Gomez told Rolling Stone. “There’s something over me that is maybe my bipolar that kind of just keeps me humble—in a dark way.”
戈麦斯告诉《滚石》杂志：“在我20多岁的时候，生活开始变得非常黑暗，我无法控制自己的感受，不管这种感受是好是坏。“也许是我的躁郁症，让我感到自卑。”
In addition to her struggles with bipolar disorder, Gomez has battled lupus. In 2017, Gomez received a kidney transplant as a result of the chronic autoimmune disease. Despite a lifetime of health concerns, the recent 2024 Cannes Film Festival lead actress winner says she remains thankful and enthusiastic about the future.
除了躁郁症，戈麦斯还患有红斑狼疮。2017年，戈麦斯因慢性自身免疫性疾病做了肾脏移植手术。尽管身体状况堪忧，但这位2024年戛纳电影节女主得主表示，她仍然心怀感恩，对未来满怀希望。
“I’m excited for what that journey will look like, but it’ll look a little different. At the end of the day, I don’t care. It’ll be mine. It’ll be my baby,” Gomez said.
“我很期待这段旅程，尽管它有所不同，但是我不在乎。它将是我的，是我的孩子，”戈麦斯说。
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