For every experience of life, you can choose to make it enriching or turn it into a curse. 对于每一个人生经历，你可以选择让它丰富你的生命或将它变成一个诅咒。
Sadhguru: See, how to address the larger issues of my life. There are no large issues in your life.(Laughter) What is the large issue that you're talking about? It is just about what job to take? Which girl to marry? Where to go for vacation? Where the whether to get married or not get married? You know, these are the things, isn't it? These are not large issues, these are little things in your life. Yes.Sadhguru（萨古鲁）：看，如何解决我生命中的大问题。在你的生命中没有大问题。你说的大问题是什么？只是关于要做什么工作？和谁结婚？去哪里度假？结婚还是不结婚？你知道，就这些事，不是吗？这些不是什么大问题，这些是你生命中的小事情。是的。Oh, is it just a small thing whom I get married to? I'm not saying it's a small thing but as an issue it's a small issue. Little issue. As a consequence to your life, yes it has many things but this is something that human beings have done for millions of years. We have enough experience on these things, isn't it? (Laughs) We know that whatever job we take, whoever we marry, it is just the way we make out of it. Every experience of life you can make it an enriching experience, every experience in your life you can make a curse out of it.哦，我和谁结婚是件小事吗？我没有说它是件小事，但作为一个问题来说，它是个小问题。对你人生的重要性而言，是的，它对你的人生有很多影响。但是，这件事人类已经做了几百万年了。我们在这件事情上已经有了足够的经验，不是吗？我们知道，无论我们做什么工作，和谁结婚，重要的是我们从中制造出什么。你生命中的每个经历，你可以让它成为一个丰富你生命的经历；你生命中的每个经历，你也可以让它成为对你的诅咒。See there is nothing wrong in your job whatever job you're doing. There's nothing wrong getting this job, there's nothing wrong in losing this job, there is nothing wrong in getting married, there's nothing wrong in getting divorced, there is nothing wrong in not getting married, there is nothing wrong in anything, there is nothing wrong in this or that, but it is just that you make misery out of it that's wrong. You do this you make misery out of it, if you do that you make misery out of it. That's what is wrong with you.看，你的工作没有任何问题，无论你在做什么工作。获得这份工作没有问题，失去这份工作没有问题，结婚没有问题，离婚没有问题，不结婚也没有问题。任何事情都没有问题。这个或那个都没有问题，只是你从中制造出了痛苦，这才是你的问题。So you got married, is it wrong? That's not the point. There's nothing wrong with it. You did not get married is it wrong? No there's nothing wrong with it. That's wonderful too. You got divorced, is it wrong? No, that's also wonderful. It is just that you make misery out of everything that's what is wrong. You just address that one issue everything will be settled. That's what we are looking at. How not to make misery out of everything? If this one thing is settled everything is settled, isn't it? Yes? 那么，你结婚了，这有错吗？这不是问题的关键。这完全没有任何问题。你没有结婚，这有错吗？不，这完全没有任何问题。这也很棒。你离婚了，这有问题吗？不，这也很棒。只是你在每件事情中都制造痛苦，这才是错的。你只要解决这一个问题，一切都会得到解决。这是我们要关注的。怎样不从每件事中制造痛苦。如果这一件事情解决了，所有的事情都解决了，不是吗？对吗？If you know how to walk through this world joyfully through marriage and divorce and celibacy and everything, if you know how to walk through this joyfully, what is the problem? Whatever you do is beautiful, isn't it? (Laughs)如果你知道怎样喜悦地活在这个世上，喜悦地经历婚姻、离婚、独身和一切事情。如果你知道怎样喜悦地经历这些，那还有什么问题？无论你做什么都是美好的，不是吗？That comes next. (Laughter) If you don't even know how to be happy, don't have such goals as a realization. They are very far away from you. See, you are just dismissing something very fundamental to your life with a stupid definition. Happiness is not just a state of mind, it is just the basis of the quality of life that you live here, isn't it? Is it such a small thing happiness? Oh it's just a state of mind. Is it a small thing? So biggest issue, isn't it?这是下一步。如果你连如何让自己快乐都不知道，不要把了悟作为目标。它离你太远了。看，你只是在用一个愚蠢的定义来否定你生命中一些非常根本的东西。快乐不仅仅是头脑的一种状态，它是你活在这里，生命品质的基础，不是吗？快乐是一件小事吗？哦，它只是头脑的一种状态。它是一件小事吗？最大的问题，不是吗？Questioner: In your book you have written, this is the minimum thing to do in life, is to be happy.提问者：你在书里写到，一个人在自己的生命中做的最基本的事就是让自己快乐。Questioner: And if I do that the entire life, will I be fulfilling my life? 提问者：那么如果我一生都做到快乐，我的生命会圆满吗？Sadhguru: No. No, I didn't say that. I said, if that is not possible forget realization and all that nonsense. It's not even in your sphere. If you are capable of going through this world joyfully, then you could talk about going beyond. If you are not even capable of going through this joyfully, talking about beyond is no good. There is no way. I'm telling you. There is simply no way. Sadhguru（萨古鲁）：不。不，我没有那样说。我说的是，如果保持快乐都不可能，那就更别提了悟和所有那些了。它甚至不在你的范围里。如果你能喜悦地活在这个世上，那么你可以谈论超越。如果你甚至不能喜悦地活着，那么谈论超越并不是好事。根本没有可能。我现在就告诉你，那根本没有可能。For a person who is constantly creating inner battles all the time, how will he deal with the bondages of life and how will he transcend that? There's no question, it doesn't arise in your life. So first thing is working towards to be a blissful human being. If that happens, the rest becomes very simple.Because a blissful human being, once your happiness is not atstake, anything that's needed you will do, isn't it? 对于一个总在不停制造内在斗争的人，他将如何应对生命的束缚？并且，他将如何超越这个束缚？毫无疑问，它不会在你生命中发生。所以，首要的是，让自己变成一个喜悦的人。如果这件事做到了，其余就变得非常简单。因为一个充满喜悦的人，一旦你的喜悦不是问题，你会去做任何所需要做的事，不是吗？Right now you cannot do what's needed, because always your happiness is at stake. You are thinking what which is the right thing to do, which is the right thing to do. There is no right thing to do in your life. There is no wrong thing to do in your life. If you know how not to make misery out of everything that you do, whatever you are doing is the right thing. If you are making misery out of everything that you do, everything that you do is the wrong thing.So that's the only issue you have to look it. (Laughs) Others are all petty things. What does it matter which way you do it.现在你不能去做需要的事，是因为你的快乐还是个问题。你在想做什么是正确的，该做什么才是正确的。你的生命中没有正确的事。你的生命中也没有错误的事。如果你知道如何不从你做的每件事中制造痛苦，无论你做什么都是对的。如果你从你做的每件事中制造痛苦，那你做的每件事都是错的。所以这是唯一你需要看的问题。其他都是小事。重要的是你做事的方式。
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