适用于人类维度的爱都不是真正的爱，那只是一种用他人的存在来填补自己的深切渴望，把别人放在你的0前面，这样你就有了意义。当一个女人独自一人时感觉没什么，当她和丈夫在一起，你再看她——她是和一个数字在一起，0前面有了数字。一个男人自己时好像是个空壳，和一个女人在一起他看上去就是个人物了。一个丈夫就是一个人物！
一个单身汉就没什么。
我们一直在找一些办法，用一些东西来阻止这种虚无的体验。不，人类的爱不是真正的爱，那只是一些骗人的把戏，真正的爱是超越人性的。
真正的爱根本不是填补内在的空间——事实恰好相反。它是分享你的内在空间，你不会跟个乞丐一样向他人乞讨，而是像国王一样。你不是来乞讨的，你是来分享的。记住这两个词。
如果你向他人乞讨什么，那么它不是爱。如果你分享，它就是爱。
就某种意义来说，分享是超越人类的，但它仍然在人类的能力范围内。分享是连接人与神之间的桥梁，那就是为什么爱是从人到神的桥梁。
所以，不要试图去找一个男朋友、女朋友或任何人来填补你的内在空间，不，要找一个人与他分享。不要去找一个数字——1、2、3——不要去找数字。找一个也像0一样的人。
当两个0相遇，那就是爱。当两个空无相遇，那就是爱。
记住：当两个0相遇，并没有两个0——只有一个0。0加0还是0——你可以继续加，想加多少加多少，但它永远都是一个0。整体永远不会比一个0更多。
当两个人消失，那就是爱。当爱和被爱都不存在，那就是爱。即使是在最伟大的爱情故事里，爱也只存在于几个片刻里。
这样跟你说吧：我读过很多伟大的诗篇，很多伟大的史诗，但哪怕是一篇伟大的史诗，哪怕是莎士比亚、加里达斯、 Tulsidas、弥尔顿、但丁的诗，也只有几句是有诗意的。
哪怕是一场惊天地泣鬼神的爱恋也不过如此：只有几个稀有的片刻是有爱的。只有当你们完全消失，当二不再是二，非二元出现，个体人格不再相互碰撞，人格面具被彻底丢弃——爱才会发生。那样的爱有着永恒的品质，那样的爱有着祈祷的品质，那样的爱就是神。
The love that pertains to the human dimension is not really love; it is just a deep urge to fill oneself with the other's being, to put somebody else in front of your zero so you become meaningful. A woman alone feels nothing; moving with the husband, see the woman -- she is moving with a figure, the zero is moving with a figure. A man alone feels empty; moving with a woman he feels somebody. A husband is somebody!
A bachelor is nobody.
We go on finding somehow, with something, to block this experience of nothingness.No, human love is not really love. It is just a trick to deceive. The real love is something beyond human.
And the real love is something which has nothing to do with filling the inner space -- just the contrary. It has something to do with sharing the inner space. You don't go like a beggar to the other; you go like an emperor. You don't go to beg; you go to share. And remember these two words.
If you are begging something from somebody, then it is not love. If you are sharing, then it is love.
Sharing is in a way beyond human beings, and yet in a way within human capacity. Sharing is the bridge which joins the human to the Divine. That's why love is the bridge which joins the human to the Divine.
So don't try to find a friend, a girlfriend, somebody to fill your inner space. No. Find someone to share with. Don't find a figure -- one, two, three -- don't find a figure. Find somebody who is also like a zero.
When two zeros meet, there is love. When two emptinesses meet, there is love.
And remember: when two zeros meet, there are not two zeros -- there is only one zero. Zero plus zero plus zero -- you can go on putting as many zeros as you want, but it always comes to one zero. The total is never more than one zero.
Love is when two persons disappear. Love is when the lover is not and the beloved is not. Even in great love affairs, there are only a few rare moments when love is.
Let me tell you in this way: I have read many great poems, many great epics, but even in a great epic,even in Shakespeare, in Kalidas. in Tulsidas, in Milton, in Dante, only rarely are there a few lines which are poetic.
Sometimes just a fragment of a line is poetic; sometimes only a word, just a nuance is poetic. Even in a great love affair that's how it is: only a few rare moments are of love. But only when you completely disappear and two are not two and a non-duality exists, and the personalities are no more clashing,personalities have been dropped -- then love happens. That love has the quality of timelessness. That love has the quality of prayer. That love is God.
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@如果一个人逃避爱，那就是在逃避生命。逃避爱就意味着自杀！爱是世界上最艰辛的事，爱需要真正的勇气
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