一个门徒说：一切接纳我自己的努力，似乎都只是在强化我的自我（小我），所以它是个恶性循环。我想摆脱这个恶性循环。我觉得自己严重的错过了生命，错过了你——通过待在这个恶性循环里。
OSHBuddha：
那是真的！如果你接纳自己，你觉得它带来了一些自我？
忘掉自我。接纳你自己，嗯？自我这个部分我们以后再看，先全然的接纳你自己。
让自我来就好了，自我不是什么大问题，自我越大就越容易爆裂。它就像个气球，嗯？它膨胀后，只要轻轻戳一下它就破了！让自我在那里，那也是被允许的，但接纳你自己，事情会开始有所改变。
事实上，接纳意味着也接纳自我，这样的话它才是全然的接纳。开始接纳。
但开始接纳。我身边也需要一些十足的自我主义者。我需要各种各样的人！对吗？很好！
A sannyasin says: Any efforts to accept myself only seem to strengthen my ego; so it’s a circle. I want to get out of the circle. I feel I’m missing a lot – of life, of you – by being in that circle.
OSHBuddha：
That’s true! If you accept yourself you feel it brings some ego?
Forget about the ego. Accept yourself, mm? We will see about the ego later on; first accept yourself totally.
Let the ego come; the ego is not such a big problem, and the bigger it iS, the easier it Is burst. It is like a balloon, mm? – it becomes big then just a prick and it is gone! Let the ego be there, that is allowed, but accept yourself and things will start changing.
In fact acceptance means acceptance of the ego too, then it is total acceptance. Start by accepting.
But start accepting. I need a few great egoists around here too. I need all kinds of people! Right? Good!Before Breakfast
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@正确帮助孩子很好成长的方法：如果你真有勇气，就请不要帮助孩子，爱他接纳他，让他做他想做的
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