「只筛选,不改变」是成年人对爱情最大的误会

百科   2024-12-03 20:50   上海  



今日互动


很久之前听过一句话:


好的爱情约等于,一个人开始,然后两个人保持努力。


如今想来这不就是「优化取向」?


那么,你的恋爱观是怎样的?

宿命型居多,还是成长型居多?


References:

Elliot, A. J., & Church, M. A. (1997). A hierarchical model of approach and avoidance achievement motivation. Journal of personality and social psychology, 72(1), 218.


Franiuk, R., Cohen, D., & Pomerantz, E. M. (2002). Implicit theories of relationships: Implications for relationship satisfaction and longevity. Personal Relationships, 9(4), 345-367.


Knee, C. R. (1998). Implicit theories of relationships: Assessment and prediction of romantic relationship initiation, coping, and longevity. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 74(2), 360.


Knee, C. R., Nanayakkara, A., Vietor, N. A., Neighbors, C., & Patrick, H. (2001). Implicit theories of relationships: Who cares if romantic partners are less than ideal?. Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin, 27(7), 808-819.


Knee, C. R., Patrick, H., & Lonsbary, C. (2003). Implicit theories of relationships: Orientations toward evaluation and cultivation. Personality and Social Psychology Review, 7(1), 41-55.


Knee, C. R., & Petty, K. N. (2013). Implicit theories of relationships: Destiny and growth beliefs. The Oxford handbook of close relationships, 183-198.


Rusbult, C. E., Zembrodt, I. M., & Gunn, L. K. (1982). Exit, voice, loyalty, and neglect: Responses to dissatisfaction in romantic involvements. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 43(6), 1230.


本文关键词:关系内隐理论、宿命论、成长型、恋爱观、只筛选不改变、磨合

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