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“搭子不在，感觉饭菜都不香了”“今晚撸铁，求搭”……如今，“搭子”越来越无缝接入年轻人的生活，有人调侃，“可以没对象，但必须有搭子”。Nowadays, "dazi" has increasingly become an integral part of young people's lives. Some people say, "I can be single, but I must have a dazi."“搭子”指的是一般的友谊。虽然他们不是亲密的朋友，但他们确实提供了当代人渴求的陪伴，尤其是你只想和某人一起吃饭或购物却不想分享你内心深处的秘密时。"Dazi" refers to a casual friendship. Although they are not intimate friends, they do offer a relationship that people are eager to have, especially when you just want someone to eat with or shop with but not share your deepest secrets with.What is the charm of "dazi socializing"?其实搭子的魅力正在于需要时彼此各取所需，又能随时相忘于江湖。In fact, the charm of dazi lies in fulfilling each other's needs when necessary and doesn't take too much time to maintain.如今年轻人面临较大的工作和学习压力，以及较高的生活成本，大部分年轻人缺乏时间和精力去维护传统的亲密关系，他们需要一种更轻松、简单、灵活的社交方式来排解孤独、寻找陪伴。Nowadays, young people face much more work and study pressure, as well as higher living costs. Most of them are lack of the time and energy to maintain traditional intimate relationships. They need a more relaxed, simple, and flexible way of socializing to relieve loneliness and find companionship.比如，一个人看电影太孤单了于是便找了个“电影搭子”，两个人一起既能互相陪伴又能共同探讨剧情，这样随机搭配起来的搭子，也是一次“恰到好处的陪伴”。For example, going to the movies alone is too lonely so one finds a "movie dazi". Together, they can keep each other company and discuss the plot. Such randomly paired dazi can sometimes be a "perfect companionship".搭子的出现似乎让人际关系变得更为简单、纯粹，看似云淡风轻，但本质上仍归属于“轻社交”的一种。The emergence of dazi seems to make interpersonal relationships simpler and purer. It appears effortless but essentially belongs to a form of "light socializing".每个人都有自己的生活方式和社交需求，有些人喜欢深入交往、建立深厚的友谊；而有些人则更喜欢保持一定的距离、享受轻松愉快的社交氛围。这并没有对错之分，只有适合不适合。既是社交，便离不开情感的联系。不管是搭子还是朋友，真诚理解和有效沟通永远是“必杀技”。Everyone has their own lifestyle and social needs. Some people enjoy deep interactions and establishing profound friendships, while others prefer maintaining a certain distance and enjoying a relaxed and pleasant social atmosphere. There is no right or wrong; only what suits or doesn't suit one's preferences. Since it is socializing, emotional connections are inevitable. Whether it's dazi or friends, sincere understanding and effective communication are always the most important.
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编辑：程登宇 邵温韵
Editor: Cheng Dengyu, Shao Wenyun
实习生：陶一漪
Intern: Tao Yiyi
审核：谢庆
Supervisor: Xie Qing
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