如果你想成长,你必须带上一切——恐惧、愤怒、爱、恨一切。哪怕你想丢下一样东西,你也无法成长

文摘   2024-08-16 16:34   中国香港  



一个门徒说自从来到浦那(即印度浦那市的BUDDHA社区)后,她常年来的恐惧加深了。

OSBuddha

让它来到高潮。你还在抑制它。你害怕恐惧。恐惧是好的,恐惧恐惧是不好的。恐惧是自然的,但恐惧恐惧是不自然的。

所以放下第二个恐惧,允许第一个恐惧表达自己。它得做些什么,它需要完成一些功课,一旦做完功课了,它就会消失。

如果你阻止它,它就会持续下去,因为借由阻止它,你会阻止它做功课。

生命里无论发生什么,它都有着某些非常非常深刻的意义。人应该接纳一切——也接纳恐惧,也接纳愤怒。

只有当你接纳一切时,你才开始成长。哪怕你拒绝一件事,你也无法成长。

就像你想来见我,但你不想带着你的左手来。这是不可能的:要么你的左手跟着你来,要么你跟左手在一块儿,你就没办法来见我。人是一个有机整体,恐惧是(人的)一部分,就像左手。

如果你想成长,你必须带上一切——恐惧、愤怒、爱、恨,一切。

哪怕你想丢下一样东西,你也得呆在原地,你无法成长,因为对你来说那些东西并非偶然的特征。它们是你的本质,它们就是你!恐惧是你,愤怒也是你。

语言会造成很欺骗性的理解。我们可以说“我有恐惧”,但那是错的,“我是恐惧”,而非“我有恐惧”。用“有”这个词让你觉得如果你想,你就能放下它。事实并非如此。

所以接纳,一旦你接纳了,事情就会开始运转。你正处在边缘,只需临门一脚(只需要一样东西):接纳。


A sannyasin says the fear she has always had with her has grown since being in Poona.

OSHBuddha:

Let it come to a climax. You are still holding it. You are afraid of fear. Fear is good; fear of fear is bad. Fear is natural but fear of fear is an unnatural thing.


So just drop the second fear and allow the first fear to have its say. It has to do something, there is some work for it to complete, and once it has done the work it will disappear. If you prevent it, it will continue, because by preventing it you will be preventing its work.


Whatsoever happens in life has some very very deep meaning in it. Everything should be accepted – fear too, anger too. Only when you accept all do you start growing. If you reject even a single thing, you cannot grow. It is as if you want to come to see me but you don’t want to bring your left hand. It is impossible: either the left hand will come with you or you will have to stay with the left hand and you will not be able to come. Man is an organic totality; fear is a part, just like the left hand.


If you want to grow you will have to take everything with you – fear, anger, love, hate, all. If you want to drop even one thing you will have to remain there, you cannot grow, because those things are not like accidental attributes to you. They are your essential being, they are you! Fear is you, anger is you.


Language creates very fallacious understandings. We can make a sentence ’I have fear’, but that is wrong. ’I am fear’, not ’I have fear’. Using the word ’have’ gives the impression that if you want, you can drop it. It is not like that.


So accept, and once you accept, things will start moving. You are just on the verge – only one thing is needed: acceptance.Before Breakfast
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