我刚到学校几分钟后，一名学生从六楼跳下自杀，我能感觉到气氛有些不对劲，但一时没明白发生了什么。接着，学生们开始小声地开关于那个跳楼学生的玩笑。最后，我上课时有人直接告诉我发生了什么事。我们听到楼上有人尖叫，那是他们得知有人跳楼时的反应，而学生们甚至还拿那个人的痛苦开玩笑。
整个学校似乎都不在乎这件事，继续上课，仿佛什么都没发生。这让我感到非常不安，我感觉这个社会有很大的问题……
在我自己的国家，如果一个学生去世，学校几乎会取消课程，还会举行悼念仪式和默哀，而那甚至可能是在校外发生的事件。我对中国学生的反应感到很震惊。这是正常现象吗？
其他人有类似的经历吗？他们只是把尸体从水泥地上清理掉，然后假装什么也没发生。
在一所非常受人尊敬的中国学校工作时，有一次另一位外籍教师在午餐时间从一楼的窗户摔到下面的混凝土地面上（乒乓球区），当时学生们都在场，她头部着地，头骨裂开，急需救护车，现场血流满地。虽然她当时没有立即死去，但六周后因那次摔伤的后遗症去世。所有这些都发生在学期中。
学校不仅没有停课（午饭后照常上课），也没有给学生更新情况，并且要求我们不要告诉中国老师她的去世，尽管其中一些老师和她非常亲近。没有考虑到需要对目睹事件的老师或在旁边看到的孩子们提供心理辅导。
他们唯一做的事情就是封了她跳出的窗户，并急忙为我们办理新的健康保险卡，以避免法律责任，因为他们有法律义务为我们提供健康保险。
这真是令人非常，非常不安。
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I arrived at my school minutes after a student jumped from the sixth floor and killed themselves, I could tell something was "off" but couldn't tell what it was. Then the students subtly joked about the person jumping. Finally, the last class directly told me what happened. We heard someone scream upstairs when they heard about the person jumping, and the students even joked about that person's anguish.
It was like the whole school didn't care and they just went on with classes and pretended nothing had happened. It's extremely disturbing to me, and I feel like this society is incredibly screwed up...
I remember back in my country a student died and classes were almost canceled and a memorial service and moment of silence were observed, and this was for a student who died off campus in a completely different location. I was sickened by my Chinese students' responses. Is this normal?
Do other people have experiences with this? They just cleaned his body off the cement and pretended nothing happened.
Worked at a really respected Chinese school, one of the other foreign teachers fell headfirst 1 floor into a concrete floor (table tennis area) during lunch break in front of the students, cracked her skull, ambulance needed, blood everywhere.
Although she didn't die immediately she died from from issues resulting from that fall maybe 6 weeks later. All this during term.
Not only did they not close the school (classes continued after lunch), they didn't keep the students updated at all and they asked us to not tell the Chinese teachers about her eventual death despite several of them being extremely close to her. No thought of counseling was given to the teachers who saw it happen or the kids who were beside where she fell.
Only thing they did was bar the window she fell out of and a massive rush to get us new health insurance cards to cover their ass because they were legally bound to have us all on health insurance.
It was extremely, extremely fucked up
