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A curious post on the Chinese social media platform Xiaohongshu has captured the attention of netizens, showcasing the emotional highs and lows of one young woman's brave but ultimately heartbreaking attempt to propose marriage to a foreign man.
The post detailed how the woman, described as shy and introverted, mustered the courage to send a private message to a foreigner in the middle of the night. In her message, she directly asked, "I want to be your wife. Can I?" The man responded politely but firmly, saying, "Hi! Ha-ha. I have a wife."
This simple exchange left the woman devastated. The original post described her feeling as though "the sky had fallen," capturing the intense heartbreak of her rejection.
The story quickly went viral, prompting an outpouring of comments from netizens. Many sympathized with the woman’s vulnerability, while others critiqued her impulsive decision.
One user commented, "She’s so brave, but perhaps it’s a lesson to think carefully before opening up your heart like that." Another joked, "Well, at least he was honest about having a wife. Could’ve been worse!"
Some netizens debated whether the man’s response could have been more considerate. "The foreigner could have been gentler. A simple 'thank you, but I’m already married' might have softened the blow," suggested one commenter. Others felt his reply was clear and appropriate, with one writing, "He did nothing wrong. He was honest, and honesty is the best policy."
However, not all comments were sympathetic. One netizen criticized the woman’s actions, saying, "She made herself look too easy to foreign men. It’s embarrassing and gives people the wrong impression."
The woman’s experience also sparked broader discussions about the cultural differences in approaching relationships. Some users remarked that direct communication, as seen in the woman’s message, might feel unusual in traditional Chinese contexts but is not uncommon in Western cultures.
"She was brave to express herself so openly," one netizen wrote. "But sometimes bravery doesn’t guarantee a happy ending."
While many expressed support for the woman, some cautioned against putting one’s heart on the line too quickly. "Romance is about timing and mutual feelings. It’s okay to be brave, but don’t rush into love without understanding the other person," one user advised.
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