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In a heart-wrenching story from Shandong, a 38-year-old woman has found herself spiraling into emotional distress after receiving the shocking news that her long-time boyfriend, whom she had rejected multiple marriage proposals from, is marrying someone else.
For years, this woman, whose name has not been disclosed, was courted by a man who seemed unwavering in his love. Despite his repeated proposals - eight in total - she declined each time, unsure whether she was ready to make the commitment. Her boyfriend, referred to as Mr. Qiang, initially accepted her hesitance with patience, but the final rejection left him heartbroken and uncertain about their future together.
The woman had always insisted that Mr. Qiang prove his dedication to her by proposing repeatedly. Initially, he didn’t understand her request but eventually complied. Each proposal, full of sincerity, was met with rejection, and as the number grew, so did his feelings of doubt. Despite this, Mr. Qiang maintained his belief that the woman was the one for him.
After the eighth rejection, Mr. Qiang made a life-changing decision. He realized that he could no longer wait and decided to move on. He eventually got engaged to another woman, a turn of events that hit the woman like a bolt from the blue. Upon hearing the news of his marriage, the 38-year-old broke down in tears. "He always said he loved me, but I’m not the bride," she sobbed, unable to process the sudden shift in her romantic reality.
Her friend, Ms. Yue, who witnessed the emotional collapse, expressed concern over the situation. "She’s 38 now. She’s waited so long for him, but now it seems too late," Ms. Yue noted. "Her heart is broken, but what can we say? She had her chance."
Netizens quickly weighed in on the emotional turmoil, some expressing sympathy, while others felt the woman’s actions were misguided. One user pointed out, "If it were me, I would have been gone after three rejections. This man proposed eight times - how much more proof did she need? She was the one who lost out." Others agreed, noting that waiting too long in a relationship often leads to missed opportunities. "Life doesn't wait for you," another commenter noted, "you can’t keep living in a dream while real love passes you by."
But what led to the woman's actions? Reports suggest that she had been hesitant to commit because of past emotional scars, possibly stemming from a failed marriage. She needed more security and assurance before taking the plunge again. However, by putting her partner to the test, she unknowingly pushed him away. While the idea of testing someone’s love with repeated proposals might seem romantic in films, it proved disastrous in this case.
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