最近几日挺不太平的。人生无常，每一天都像劫后余生。
礼拜六下午赶过去日漫集市，因为没有去过那个展厅，查了一向舍近求远的Google（其实后来发现坐地铁妥妥的更方便也更快）决定坐公交。结果久等不来，就想着去对面坐另一路。刚到对面没多久，要等的那班误点班车就来了。你知道澳洲公交司机都很眼大无光，不在准确位置招手示意停车是不会来理你的。结果我们跑过去，看没停，又折回来，忙中出错，也没留意本来空空的车道来了一辆车。还好，司机也小心，我们也反应快，就这样有惊无险跟意外擦身而过。
后来就是看到悉尼刀客的滚动新闻，倒下的有富家千金，有高知金领。人生吶，真的不知道明天和意外哪个先来。 然后报道铺天盖地下悉尼又出了一件砍人事件在教堂里。
很多年以前，很喜欢朱哲琴的一首歌~三托厉：
无归的路 远去
无归路 远去
里海边 回过头
他回头 最后一句
爱一个人
你应 孤独的爱
不要太深诱惑
使她爱你离不开
总有一天
离开她 你离开她
有一天 你会
怎么她
可她 怎么办
她可她 那时
三托厉 的意思见图
后来，前几年，看一篇文章，说到儿子坠崖身亡，当爸的每年去山崖喊话，直到有一天他对悬崖喊道：儿子，爸爸老了，走不动了，不会再来了，从此别过。我当时看了，眼泪唰地一下流下来。我二姨夫当时在我的帖子下留言大意说：蔷啊，这种文字不要太过心，不要乱了自己的气场。
最后，分享Facebook友人的一个帖子：
Amidst moments of brutality and abject horror, we are undoubtedly subjected to the worst that mankind has to offer.
The harrowing and senseless acts of violence perpetrated against innocent members of the community in the Bondi shopping centre today are no different.
Any event that results in a fatality is an incredibly difficult one to find a positive spin for, let alone a mass murder where multiple innocent lives are ended at the hands of a cruel and calculated individual with an appetite for carnage.
What we do tend to glaze over amidst the horror and cruelty, however, is just how many incredible acts of kindness and bravery rise to the surface in times of human suffering—and how inherently good the wider community actually is.
News cycles have a responsibility to report on these awful events, but their primary focus will mean the bulk of the angles they take will be towards the sensationalist, aka what moves the needle.
They focus on the loss.
On the grief.
On the pain and suffering inflicted upon an unsuspecting community.
And unfortunately, in particular, on the perpetrator themselves.
Make no mistake, what happened today is horrifying, gut-wrenching, and unforgivable.
But as the dust settles in these coming days, don’t let the key takeaway from this awful event be that the acts of a diabolical individual represent the intentions of the wider community as a whole.
The ones who more accurately represent us are those individuals who actively stood in the way of the attacker to obstruct his path and allow others to escape.
Or those who tended to the wounded mid-attack with little consideration for the imminent danger they faced.
Or the shop owners who summoned unsuspecting shoppers into their stores and put themselves in jeopardy to ensure the safety of people they don’t even know.
Or amongst the best of us, the police officer who singlehandedly hunted down and neutralised the offender who was hell bent on killing or maiming as many people as he could, potentially preventing even more tragedy.
These are the examples of humanity which best exemplify what the wider community of Australia stands for.
Because this is the true fabric of our country
