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Since
returning to Hong Kong, I have been taking some much-needed rest to recover
from the fatigue of my long trips. These travels have not only broadened my
horizons but also prompted some deep reflections.From Guilin
to Weihai and Suzhou, I interacted with many people. I noticed that most
English speakers I encountered were only moderately proficient in the language.
They seemed content with merely conveying their messages, often lacking the
ability to communicate with emotional nuance. Unfortunately, I don't see a way
for me to help improve this situation.What
surprised me the most was the lack of awareness regarding proper attire among
the faculty and staff at some prestigious universities. It was common to see
men wearing jackets without suits and ties. In stark contrast, as visitors from
Hong Kong, we dressed impeccably for the occasions.
There are
many things I can hardly change. Perhaps it would be more beneficial for me to
focus on my own learning rather than trying to persuade others to improve. I
recently came across a quote: “The greatest virtue of the elderly is to
restrain their desire to criticise the younger generation.” This saying is
often attributed to W. Somerset Maugham, though it doesn't appear in any
specific book or published work of his. It seems to be a paraphrase or a
popular interpretation of his views on generational relationships.
As I'm approaching the retirement age, I believe that enjoying my own world is a better choice
than preaching to others. ![]()
