大扫除的时候，看的这期。
我不太懂这种所谓的亲密关系，婚姻也好，友情也好，以及亲情：
用这样窒息的、拧巴的，掌控的，负面的，让人一直在猜测在得到负向反馈的相处模式，真的开心吗？真的健康吗？
“拧巴”这个词在中文里带有一种“矛盾”、“纠结”的意思，描述人或事情不合常理、性格较为倔强或内心冲突。
1️⃣ Contradictory – 强调一种自相矛盾的状态
🌰 “He’s a contradictory person, always at odds with himself.”
2️⃣ Conflicted – 用于描述一个人内心有冲突、犹豫或纠结
🌰 “She felt conflicted about her decision, torn between two choices.”
3️⃣ Stubbornly twisted 或 Twisted personality – 强调性格中的倔强和固执不合常理
🌰 “He has a bit of a twisted personality, always resistant to conform.”
4️⃣ At odds with oneself – 描述一个人内心与自己的想法、情绪不一致
🌰 “He’s often at odds with himself, never fully comfortable with his choices.”
🥱 Each word brings love, yet each word brings pain.
