别让霸凌,成为孩子“不能说的秘密”

教育   2024-11-15 17:26   中国香港  

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上一期“心理健康”主题推文中,

我们探讨了让孩子

走出焦虑内耗,收获稳定情绪、强大内核的方法



孩子从焦虑内耗,到情绪稳定,关键做对这几件事


本期,我们继续走进AISL哈罗校园

聚焦另一个影响孩子身心健康的重要议题:

校园反霸凌,我们能怎样保护孩子?

数码时代,霸凌形式更隐蔽,如何识别预防?



哈罗反霸凌文化 + 安全意识培养

为孩子撑起“防火墙”


反对霸凌(anti-bullying)

鼓励多元包容的校园文化

源自哈罗百年教育的核心:

赋予学生四大价值理念 “互助、谦和、荣誉、勇气”

从小培养明辨是非、尊重包容、心怀仁爱的未来人才

在此氛围下,AISL哈罗各校

长期携手家长与学生们,打造反霸凌校园


01



举办科普活动,

拒绝“谈霸凌而色变”



“身体伤害、言语攻击、小团体排挤、网络键盘侠……如何识别霸凌行为?可以如何求助?”


从每年举办的“反霸凌周”,

到日常的学校晨会、主题班会、

师生讲座、家长工作坊……


学校邀请律师、网络安全专家、

心理健康专家等,从实际生活情境出发

不断增进师生与家长对不同类型霸凌特征、

危害、应对方法的认知




作为家长,我们能做些什么?

在家校合作、专家指导之下,

学生参与到丰富的“反霸凌”主题活动中

 “交换彩色袜子”、“学生友善护航者计划”、

“班级宣言与海报创作”……

看见并尊重多元之美,

当自己与他人有需要时敢于reach out求助,

而非“谈霸凌而色变”



哈罗北京去年底关于“欺凌行为观点”的

全校学生调查显示

100%的学生表示自己与老师相处融洽

并知道遇到困难时可以找谁倾诉;

99%的学生表示学校让自己有安全感

98%的学生表示自己在学校快乐无忧

97%的学生表示自己喜欢来学校上学

在此积极反馈下,学校仍未有懈怠。

德育团队一直密切追踪学生状态

包括跟进了解学生每周

使用心理健康APP自测的情况,提供及时支持


02



严格的校园反霸凌体系


完善的“匿名上报系统”,

高效的反霸凌事件处理流程

从预防到应对,有规可循,件件落实


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以哈罗南宁为例,学校管理层团队全面监督校内的反霸凌事件,确保高效闭环处理,同时保护上报学生的隐私安全




针对数字化生活与学习浪潮,

AISL哈罗学校还开展网络安全讲座

让孩子在面对网络虚假/诱导信息、负面言论时

能够正确判断与抉择、保护自己并尊重他人

一起来看看,专家有哪些“招数”建议——

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In our last post on mental wellbeing,

 we dived into how we could help children

step out of anxiety and 

boost their emotional resilience.


Essential Tips for Managing Anxiety and Achieving Emotional Stability!

This week, we continue to focus 

on another topic vital to children's wellbeing:

How can we protect children from bullying at school?

In this digital age, bullying can be in many hidden forms. How can we identify and prevent it?


Raise Safety Awareness through Anti-Bullying Culture at AISL Harrow

Build a 'Firewall' for Children


Our inclusive school culture that 

advocates anti-bullying and encourages diversity

stems from Harrow's time-honoured education—

the four core Harrow values of 

'Fellowship, Humility, Honour, and Courage'.

From an early age, we guide them to become 

kind, respectful, considerate individuals

 who know right from wrong.

It is within this supportive environment that 

AISL Harrow Schools work with parents and students 

to create an anti-bullying environment.


01



Awareness-raising events

to promote constructive dialogue 

on bullying



'Physical harm, verbal abuse, exclusion 

from a group, online trolling…

How do we identify bullying behaviour? 

And how can students seek help?'


From the annual Anti-Bullying Week 

to assemblies, class meetings, 

teacher-student talks and parent workshops, 

the schools invite lawyers, cyber-safety experts 

and mental health professionals to educate 

teachers, students and parents  about the 

characteristics and harm of different 

types of bullying, and how to address them.




As parents, what can you do?



Through home-school collaboration 

and expert guidance, students participate in 

various anti-bullying activities such as 

the 'Odd Socks Day', 'Student Guardian Programme' 

and 'Class Declaration and Poster Challenge'.

Students learn to see and respect 

the beauty of diversity, to reach out and seek help 

when they or others are in need, 

and to deal with bullying in a productive way.



At the end of last year, AISL Harrow Beijing surveyed its students for their views on bullying behaviour,

 which revealed that

100% of students said that they 

got on well with their teachers

and that they would know who to talk to 

should they encounter any difficulties in school;

99% of students said that they felt safe at school;

98% of pupils said that they felt happy at school 

and had nothing that they were worried about;

97% of students said that 

they enjoyed coming to school.


Even with such positive feedback, the school 

remained diligent in its anti-bullying efforts, 

with its moral education team constantly monitoring students' conditions and performing 

mental health tests on them weekly 

through a self-testing app to provide prompt support.


02



A rigorous anti-bullying 

mechanism


With a well-developed anonymous reporting system

 and an efficient handling process,

every case of bullying is systematically monitored 

from prevention to resolution.


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For example in AISL Harrow Nanning, the school's management team provides comprehensive oversight of all anti-bullying incidents that occur at the school, ensuring that all incidents are handled in a closed loop. Meanwhile, the privacy of whistleblowing students is protected



In an age of digital living and learning, 

AISL Harrow Schools also organise cybersecurity talks

to educate children on how to make the right judgment and decisions, and protect themselves

while respecting others in the face of false/influential information and negative statements.

Here are some tips from the experts—



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隐秘的角落:网络霸凌与安全隐患


此前,哈罗北京特邀网络

安全专家Johnathan Taylor先生

为师生们带来为期3天的网络安全培训课程

并面向家长开展研讨会,

获得一致好评,培训核心话题涵盖:

  • 如何辨别网络上“虚假”和“可疑”的信息

  • 如何在网络环境中保护自己远离危险

  • 如何积极正向的方式使用社交媒体

  • 网络行为如何影响未来的大学和工作申请

  • 网络言论或行为可能让其他人产生不同理解


“青年人正在成为社交媒体和在线游戏的主要用户群体。无论学校内外,形成整体的网络安全支持变得尤为重要。对任何孩子来说,可能发生的严重危害之一就是在线欺凌。我给学生和教职员工的最重要建议是相互支持,不要保持秘密。而对于父母来说,我的首要建议是始终保持参与。”

——Johnathan Taylor先生




看到这里,您也许已经发现,无论线上线下

哈罗校园的反霸凌机制与科普教育

在霸凌未开始的“预防”阶段,着力甚多

正如哈罗北京学生安全助理校长

Peter Lynch先生表示:

“预防和早期帮助,意味着在问题发生之前就制定好策略和干预措施。无论问题是否发生,这些策略都会被实施。学校团队随时准备支持、教育并在必要时采取行动,支持学生和家庭。” 

——Peter Lynch先生



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Hidden Corners: Cyber-bullying and Safety Risks


AISL Harrow Beijing invited 

cybersecurity expert Mr Jonathan Taylor

to conduct a three-day cybersecurity training course 

for its teachers and students.

He also held a successful seminar 

for parents on these key issues:


  • how to identify 'fake' and 'suspicious' profiles online

  • how students can best protect themselves from harmful and dangerous situations online

  • how to encourage positive use of social media

  • how your online behaviour could affect future university and job applications

  • how something you say or do online can be interpreted in different ways by other people


'Young adults are becoming the main users of social media and online gaming. It's so important for online safety to be discussed not just in school but outside of school to make sure there's a support network, a team network to make sure all student stay safe. And one of the most thing that possibly could happen to any children is online bullying. My top tip for students and staff is to support each other and don't be secretive about it. And for parents, always being involved is my number one tip.'

—— Mr Johnathan Taylor



By now, you may have noticed that AISL Harrow Schools

focus primarily on the preventative stage of our anti-bullying mechanism and awareness-raising efforts, 

both online and offline.

As Mr Peter Lynch, Assistant Head of Safeguarding & Pupil Safety at AISL Harrow Beijing, said:


'Prevention and early intervention mean putting strategies and interventions in place before a problem arises. Whether a problem occurs or not, these strategies are implemented. The school team is always ready to support, educate and, if necessary, take action to help our students and their families.'

——Mr Peter Lynch

 

正是这种竭力防范于未然的应对宗旨

让AISL哈罗校园“安全网”不断加固

从线上到线下,从校园到家中

守护孩子与家长的安心与幸福感

It is our firm commitment to prevention that

continues to fortify the 'Safety Net' 

in AISL Harrow campuses,

allowing us to reassure parents and safeguard students' wellbeing online and offline, at school and home.

 

更多“心理健康”主题故事和知识分享,

敬请留意下期推送!

For more stories and tips on mental wellbeing, 

stay tuned to our next post!

 

点击下方推文,进一步了解

AISL哈罗各地校区,如何共构安全成长环境

View the post below to learn more about

how AISL Harrow Schools create a safe environment 

for their students to thrive.


营造友善的校园文化,对霸凌“零容忍”!

我们在乎每一个人的心理健康!

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Want to join the AISL Harrow family? 

Contact our student recruitment team

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