ARCHETYPE | LUXELAKES 麓湖

When I was young, I read that "the relationship between friends is as light as water; The relationship between interested parties has been interest-based", and did not pay special attention. I had the dream of sharing joy and spending a long time together, and I always thought that the more people around me, the more happiness I would get. Until, excessive companionship evolved into a fruitless end; The original "sincerity" between each other has become "never see each other again" in life.

Suddenly I realized that our life is limited, and accidents will occur beyond this limit. "The friendship of gentlemen is as light as water", and the water is sweet but long. The word "middle" is the best relationship. It is not lonely and unsociable, "being alone" is to feel better about ourselves, "not fighting" is to let go of our hearts, "staying away" is indifferent to what has been hurt, and "proportion" is the most precious respect left to close friends.

If nothing happens, you never know who is close and who is distant; If you don't get serious, you never know who is sincere and who is hypocritical. Many things are unspeakable, unresearchable, and unverifiable.The most comfortable relationships are limited closeness and distancing. Looking forward to the warmth of getting together, and being alone is also happy.

People often find that there are two selves, one wants to go home and the other wants to travel far; one "toasts to invite the bright moon", and the other "kneels to pick up broken silver"; One "wears green clothes and rides a white horse", and the other "experiences the world through fireworks".

And life, which binds us to different realities and responsibilities, makes us have to be delayed by the years, stumped by time, smoothed by the rules, and disturbed by trivialities. We have free bodies, but we are not truly free people. We can't help but wonder if there is true freedom in this world. Wang Yangming said, "When I didn't look at this flower, this flower and you died together; When I came to see this flower, the color of this flower became clear for a while. ”It turns out that the flowers bloom and fall, whether they are free or not, are just things of the heart.

If the heart is imprisoned and not free, the world is full of cages; If the heart has nowhere to go, it will not wander wherever it goes. If there is a peach blossom source in the heart, where is not a fairyland, if the heart is active and not ignorant, everywhere you go is prosperous.

And you never meet the people, you never shake their hands, you never hear their story or tell yours. But somehow, in the act of making something with a great deal of care and love, something is transmitted there. It's a way of expressing to the rest of our species, our deep appreciation. There's lots of ways to be as a person and some people express their deep appreciation in different ways. But one of the ways that I believe people express their appreciation to the rest of humanity is to make something wonderful, and put it out there.

So, we need to be true to who we are, and remember what's really important to us. As if we keep us, us.