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A former beauty salon owner now earns thousands of pounds kicking men in the balls in car parks, then telling them to “f*** off”.
Mistress Nancy’s clients even include a millionaire lottery winner who requested a two-hour foot worship session while they watched Antiques Roadshow.
The 34-year-old says becoming a professional dominatrix is the best decision she ever made. She makes up to £14,000 a month on average.
After investing thousands into her beauty business only for clients to slowly start to dry up, Nancy - who did not wish to give her real name - needed a change.
“I’ve never had less than two jobs at a time, I’m autistic and have ADHD, so I always like being self-employed because I can’t hold a normal job,” she said.
“I work to my own schedule.
“I invested about £15,000 into my beauty business, renovating the premises and everything.
“I put a lot of time and energy and money into it and financed it myself. I loved it but because of the economy I wasn’t getting the clients I used to get in a few years ago. It was getting to the point where it was affecting my mental health.
“I thought, I need to follow where the money is.”
Over the years, she’s worked in various roles throughout the sex industry, namely as a dancer in strip clubs across Yorkshire. But she said the sector is changing, and not necessarily for the better.
Then, she suddenly found a strange niche emerging just for her.
“I would get guys come in that wanted to just like rub my feet and for me to humiliate them,” Nancy explained.
“They’d come in with just their pants on, and at the time I thought this is a bit unusual, but it just kept happening and I found that I was really good at it.
“I kept getting those clients to come back, and I just enjoyed it a lot more than actually dancing.
“That’s when I started thinking maybe I’d enjoy being a dominatrix full time and I do, I love it. Just the variety is good for my ADHD.”
Since beginning the venture in January, Nancy has also found a passion not just for BDSM but the human psychology aspect of the job.
“What brings people into the stuff they’re into, I find it absolutely fascinating,” she said.
Her social media following was already very big and she quickly rebranded, initially trying to juggle the beauty business too.
“When the beauty business started declining a bit, I thought I’m gonna go full toffee with this now, really try to build my brand,” Nancy explained.
“Now I’ve got guys who just send me hundreds, sometimes thousands because they get off on it.”
A particular focus of hers is referred to as ‘findom’ - or financial domination - where men send her large sums of money, often without ever meeting her.
“Sometimes it’s a couple of hundred, sometimes it’s three grand,” she said.
“I’ve never done more than three grand on a drain. My goal is 10 grand,” she added.
“I do most of it on Twitter. That’s where I get most of the findom guys.”
Nancy said some men will send her “loads of money” online and then suddenly deactivate their social media accounts.
“They’re probably thinking, I’ve spent too much, my wife’s going to give me a b******ing - then they’ll pop up again weeks later,” she explained.
“They come off Twitter so there’s no temptation, which I understand, it has to be ethical as well. I don’t want to make anyone go into debt.
“I am the type of dom that gauges how much someone can afford.”
“I wasted years of my life in dead end jobs and thought that’s all I’m going to do.
“Get smacked in the face in care homes for minimum wage, stuff like that.
“I never thought that I could think outside the box and do something like this.
“I’ve been self employed, I’ve always got ideas, I’m very resourceful. It’s hard to relate to people who are just going pay cheque to pay cheque, doing the same job forever. Not having enough money to do things.
“I’ve been really skint, really poor, homeless.
“When you go through periods like that you never want to do it again, so I think there’s an element of that as well.
“I see it now as I’m going to make the most of this and have as much fun as I can, learn as much as I can, keep challenging myself and keep smashing it, that’s all I want to do.”
Source: https://www.thesun.co.uk
