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On December 19, 2014, an alarming incident occurred in Yichuan, Henan Province, where a group of elderly individuals reportedly blocked a wedding car procession, aggressively demanding red envelopes, a customary gift in Chinese weddings. The group even went as far as using a wheelchair as part of their tactic to hinder the vehicles. Fortunately, the groom’s entourage, determined to ensure the event went smoothly, took immediate action and did not give in to the demands.
The incident quickly went viral on social media, with users expressing both shock and outrage over the audacity of the group and the disturbing trend of extortion during wedding celebrations. This behavior, according to netizens, has become increasingly common in various regions of Henan, where groups of elderly individuals are said to target newlywed couples, blocking wedding cars and demanding cash as part of an unwelcome "tradition."
One user commented, "It's become a regular occurrence in many parts of Henan. These groups of elderly people seem to believe it's their right to demand money from newlyweds on their special day. It's an embarrassing and disgraceful act." Another user added, "What’s more outrageous is how they use wheelchairs to block the cars. It’s a clear attempt to manipulate the situation and gain sympathy."
While red envelopes, or "hongbao," are indeed an essential part of Chinese weddings, symbolizing good luck and prosperity for the couple, this recent behavior has crossed a line. The group’s tactics raised concerns about the growing culture of entitlement and exploitation, with many questioning the respect and ethics involved in such actions.
Thankfully, the groom’s friends, who were acting as the wedding party’s bodyguards, did not yield to the pressure. They reportedly managed to clear the way, ensuring the procession continued without further delay. However, the incident left many to reflect on the increasing occurrence of such practices in rural and urban areas alike.
One netizen concluded, "The situation has gone too far. Local authorities need to step in and address this issue, or it will only get worse. Wedding celebrations should be about joy, not about people extorting money from the couple."
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