当出现分歧时，人们往往会情绪激动。一定要在任何时候都保持冷静分析问题的态度。与情绪化的讨论相比，逻辑清晰地交换意见不会轻易被终止。要记住，情绪化容易阻碍人们正确地看待现实。例如，人们有时会说，“我感觉（某件事是真实的）”，然后在接下来的讨论中将其作为事实依据，而别人却可能对同一问题做出不同的判断。要问他们，“这是真的吗”，让对话建立在事实的基础之上。
People’s emotions tend to heat up when there is disagreement. Remain calm and analytical at all times; it is more difficult to shut down a logical exchange than an emotional one. Remember too that emotions can shade how people see reality. For example, people will sometimes say, “I feel like (some-thing is true)” and proceed as though it’s a fact, when other people may interpret the same situation differently. Ask them, “Is it true?” to ground the conversation in reality.
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