不要入戏太深,惟愿好人好梦。
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大疫三年,给我带来的后遗症,除了身体不明原因的漫长疼痛,还有总是期待看到他人他事都被妥善安放的美满结局:
Do you agree that your parents have a second? Different students have different opinions about it. I am very happy to know that Datong School will start the summer camp. The middle school students from the Belt and Road countries will join it. I'd like to work for the summer camp. I want to be a cook, because I want to cook delicious food for students and make them know more about our food culture. I can make many kinds of foods, such as dumplings, noodles and so on. If I become a member of the summer camp, I will prepare delicious food carefully and keep the food clean and safe every day. I will try my best to let students have a wonderful time in our country. Today, as a greener means of transportation, bike-sharing is becoming more and more popular in many cities. It's known that it has many advantages. So it is enjoyed by lots of people. Some students agree with the idea. If so, they won't feel lonely and there will always be someone to play with. Besides, if their parents get older or ill, they can take turn to look after them. However, some students disagree. They worry that they will get less love from their parents if another comes to the family. What's worse, they may not get along well, or even fight against each other. First of all, it's very convenient for people to go somewhere. Also, it helps to reduce the traffic pressure. There will be less pollution because of bike-sharing. Besides, bike-sharing helps people take more exercise. In this way, it's helpful to people's health. As for me, I'd love to have a brother or sister as company, so that we can share our happiness and sorrow anytime. However, it also brings some problems. For example, some people throw them away after using bikes. Even some people destroy them, and some bikes are stolen by thieves. As long as we take good care of bikes, it will make our life better and better, and our environment will be more beautiful. I will try my best to let students have a wonderful time in our country. I am very happy to know that Datong School will start the summer camp. The middle school students from the Belt and Road countries will join it. As for me, I'd love to have a brother or sister as company, so that we can share our happiness and sorrow anytime. How to Improve Our Study Effectively? A great number of students can't finish their tasks, which leads to bad results and makes them less interested in their study. How can we solve the problem? Here are some suggestions. How to Spend Our Time Properly? You need to find an effective learning method. Take advantage of class time to listen to the teacher. Taking notes will help you remember what the teachers say. After class, you should review your lessons in time. You should also finish your homework carefully. If you have discovered any mistakes, correct them immediately. This will help you form a good learning habit. There is no endless time for us to spend. So how can we make good use of time to make our study and life better? Besides, you need to do some exercise. It can not only make you relaxed but also build up your body. First, we should make sure that the time is under control of ourselves. Second, more time should be used in study. As we all know, it takes time to study words or to do some exercises. So, to study well, you are supposed to spend much time on it. Third, we should spend proper time in developing our interests. Fourth, spending time with our family and friends is necessary. All in all, you should make good use of time on study and relaxation. If you have any problems in your study, you can ask your classmates or teachers for help. All in all, time is a good gift from the god. Only when we spend it properly, can we make our life meaningful and colorful. If you follow the advice that I have mentioned above, you will be successful. From 10:00 to 10:55, we plan to sing, dance, perform magic tricks and put on a short play at the farewell party. At 11:00, it's time for us to take photos together and give telephone numbers and addresses to each other. We can also write farewell words, give gifts and so on. After that, we will do some cleaning for our classroom. The party will be over at 11:30. I'm always working hard for a bright future. I imagine what my life in 20 years will be like. In 20 years, I will play an important role in my family. I will take care of my parents. Maybe I will be married and have a lovely child. In my free time, I will get together with my good friends to talk about the past school life. We can also do other things such as gardening and doing yoga. What's more, I will have a job and face new challenges. I think I will be a doctor and help patients. Last but not least, maybe I will have a robot. It can help me a lot in my daily life. Attention, please!Our class is going to have a farewell party in our classroom on the morning of June 26th, 2017. At 9:00, we will talk about what are you going to be when you grow up? After that, we will discuss how to spend our summer holidays. In a word, I hope my life in 20 years will be a better one! In my opinion, everyone should try to be civilized and follow these rules of using bikes. As long as we take good care of bikes, they will make our life better and better, and our environment will be more beautiful. Come to My Hometown Fujian for a Visit Hi, John, I'm glad to hear that you're planning to travel around China during the summer vacation. I'd like to invite you to my hometown Fujian for a visit. My Favorites Subject Glad to hear from you. I'd like to tell you something about the Chinese Dragon Boat Festival and how I spent it this year. Fujian lies in the southeast of China with Fuzhou as its capital city. It has a population of over 38 million. Because of the nice environment, it's known as Refreshing Fujian, which attracts millions of tourists from home and abroad. If you come here, you can enjoy fresh air, blue sky as well as beautiful mountains and clear rivers. Many famous places of interest like Mount Wuxi and Gulag Island are well worth visiting. Besides, you can taste various kinds of delicious food. In school we study many subjects, such as Chinese, English, geography and so on. But my favorite subject is English. How Do I Improve My English Today I am glad to introduce a teenager. His name is Cheng. Hello, everyone, now I want to give you an introduction about myself. My name is Gina Green. Gina is my first name and Green is my family name. I am a girl at the age of 12. I like chatting on the Internet, and my QQ number is. What's yours? I visited Hong Kong last summer holiday. It's a beautiful city and I had a wonderful time there. I'm Li Hue and I'm very happy to stand here to talk about myself. I have a good friend. Her name is May. She is 12 years old. Her telephone number is. Her birthday is March 5th. She is good at English and Cheese. She often plays the piano. She likes reading books and listening to the music. Her hobbies are reading and listening to music. She is a nice girl. We often help each other. We are good friends. There is always something unforgettable in my life, especially the story between my friend and me. My friend Daniel encourages me a lot in many ways. Now let me tell you something about him. Miss Wang is my English teacher. She looks very young. She's about thirty years old, and she wears glasses. She's funny. But she is strict with us. She wants us to study hard. Her lessons are interesting. We are very happy in her class and we all like her lessons. She is a good teacher, and we all like her. Hello, everyone! I'm Li Mei. Look! This is my family photo. This is my grandmother. She is 58. This is my father. He is a teacher. He is 36, and my mother is 36, too. Who's that boy? Oh, he is my brother. He is 13 and I am 12. My brother and I are students. Liang Ling, a 15-year-old girl, is a student in Class 1, Grade 9. How time flies! Three years has passed. I will graduate from junior high school. Look! This is Tom's room. His photos are on the wall. His T-shirt is on the bed. His baseball bat is behind the dresser. The keys are in the drawer. The computer is on the desk. Where is Tom's baseball? Oh, it's under the bed. What is on the floor? They are Tom's shoes, socks and computer games. What do you think of Tom's room? He is a helpful boy who often helps people around him. I still remember what happened between my best friend Lin Tao and me. I hope you can come to China next year and spend the festival with me. I will continue to study hard in my English studies and improve it to a higher stage. To improve our English, the school has given a list of books for us to read this summer. Of all the suggested books, I have decided to choose Secrets of English Words and Time for Kids. Knowing English makes my traveling much easier. I can make many foreign friends, too. This tells us that nothing seems terrible as long as we have a strong will and a brave heart. The first one is a book which may help me use English words better. By reading this book, I will surely learn more new words. This will make my future study much easier. Time for Kids is a popular magazine specially written for students, in which I will read interesting stories and have a taste of teen life abroad. So it must be of great fun to read it. Besides, reading can help me know more about the outside world and make me enrich my knowledge. That's why my dream shop is a bookstore. Being part of this activity, I am expecting a big step forward in my English. There will be a big reading room in it and people can sit in the chair to read their favorite books or magazines. Do remember no matter where we go, be sure not to throw litter everywhere. I am very glad to hear that you will come back to China and study in my school next term. Here are some suggestions for you. I'm sorry to know that you are having some problems now. I'd like to give you some suggestions. In order to have more chances to practice and improve English, we are involved in many kinds of group work and pair work activities in English classes. I hope my suggestions will be helpful for you. A great number of students can't finish their tasks, which leads to bad results and makes them less interested in their study. How can we solve the problem? Here are some suggestions. So I would like to suggest that everyone should borrow more books and read good books. Only when we spend it properly, can we make our life meaningful and colorful. There is no endless time for us to spend. So how can we make good use of time to make our study and life better? On that day, we eat; go to watch lantern shows and dragon dances to pray for health and happiness for the whole year. The Dragon Boat Festival falls on May 5th this year. People all across China eat Zongzi and dragon boat races are held in many places to remember a great ancient person Queue. I think English is very interesting. It's used widely in the world. Wherever you go, you can use it. I can not only learn many new words and phrases but also get the latest news about western countries. Besides, English is a global language. Knowing English makes my travel much easier. I can make many foreign friends, too. What Should I Do For the Strive? As we know, Anshan city is becoming more and more beautiful. Actually, Anshan is bidding for the title of, which is a must for our city to become green and famous in China. As a middle school student, I am terribly happy for that, because I will do what I can do to help. What should we do then? Firstly, we cannot litter anywhere and we should keep the streets clean. Secondly, we should follow traffic rules at all times to keep safe. Thirdly, we should treat each other politely and behave in a civilized way. More importantly, we must plant more trees, flowers and plants to make the city become greener. In the future, I will take notes carefully and focus on correct spelling and grammar. After class, it is a good idea for me to read more articles from English newspapers or magazines. When I have some problems with my English speaking, I will turn to my teachers and friends for help. I will continue to study hard in my English studies and improve it to a higher stage. I hope you can come to China next year and spend the festival with me. To sum up, it is our duty to contribute to and to struggle for the honor of, isn't it? As for it, different students have different thoughts. Some students stand by it, others are against it. As far as I'm concerned, I think study trip is good for students, and here are my reasons. I'm looking forward to meeting you! We had three days off for this festival this year. During that time, I went for a picnic in the countryside with my good friends, and of course, ate Zongzi with my family. I also watched the dragon boat races on TV. I enjoyed the holiday very much. In a word, I'm sure you will enjoy yourself here. He is very popular in our school because he is polite to everyone. Of all kinds of movies, I like comedies best. I think they're interesting. My favorite actor is Jackie. I like his movie King of Comedy. I think it's a successful comedy. For action movies, I like The Lord of the Ring best. It's exciting. I like documentaries because they're true stories. I like only some thrillers. Many thrillers are scary and boring. My favorite memory of my dad is that he always wants to keep me from making mistakes but he tries to let me find my own way, even though his heart breaks in silence when I get hurt. As for my dream, I want to be a teacher; I'll make friends with my kids. I have a good weekend. On Saturday morning, I do my homework. After lunch, I go shopping with my mother. At about five o'clock, I go to play basketball with my friend. On Sunday, I watch a football game on TV. I often help my mother do housework. I watch TV with my parents in the evening. Then I go to bed at nine o'clock. I'm very happy The next morning, I found a piece of paper. It said, never give up, dear. I am proud of you! Like many other boys, I enjoy doing sports, but math's and science are my favorite. My favorite subject is English. I like it because it is interesting. I have English every day. I can speak a little English. I join the school English club. Every afternoon I go there to talk in English. I can see English movies and read English books. I think it is useful for me. I want to learn it well. I like English very much. I would be very thankful if you could give me the chance. As a student, I think I should always try my best to work for our school. Though she is busy, she studies hard and gets good grades. This is my best dad. I love him and I'm so proud of him. Although I am not the best now, I will make every effort to become a top student and I believe you will be proud of me. I imagine that she is not only young but also beautiful. Hello, everyone! I don't like sports, but I like eating very much. I eat a lot food every day. For breakfast, I like milk, eggs and bread a lot. For lunch, I like French fries, chicken, hamburgers and apples. For dinner, I like fruits, vegetables and rice. Although I wasn't willing to do it, I still lent it to him because he was my best friend. I am sure that I can be a good volunteer at the International Dragon Competition. After reading so many books, I get a lot of knowledge and also feel relaxed. I get up early at six every day. After doing some morning exercises, I read English for twenty minutes. At seven I have breakfast. After breakfast I take my schoolbag and go to school. Our class begins at eight, and we have four classes in the morning. After lunch at 12 o'clock, I take a short rest in the classroom. We have three more classes in the afternoon. After school at five, I go back home. I often help my mother do some housework. Sometimes I watch TV. After dinner, I begin to do my homework. Then I take a shower. I go to bed at nine thirty. We are going to have some meaningful activities. To express thanks to our teachers, we each should say thankful words to our dear teachers. It's a chance for you to learn more about Chinese traditional culture. Come and join us! I think we'll have a great time. Before you arrive, we will prepare a clean and bright room for you. It's really hard for me to say goodbye. I wish my school to have a better future. To begin with, we need to be clear about the location of the facilities. I hope all of our younger schoolmates can live and study happily in our school. First of all, I will volunteer to do some cleaning with my classmates, such as cleaning the windows and sweeping the floor. To keep our school clean, we will ask our schoolmates not to litter at school. I am Very Grateful to My Mom Now, I'll graduate from middle school. I am very grateful to my mom because she has done much for me. I think words can't show my thanks to her. My Classmate Liang Ling Liang Ling, a 15-year-old girl, is a student in Class 1, Grade 9. She comes from a poor family. Since she was a little girl, she has cared for her family. My New Head teacher How lucky I am to be his daughter! How time flies! Three years has passed. I will graduate from junior high school. I will enter a new school to study. What will my new head teacher be like? My mom is an excellent teacher and we are in the same school. She works hard and often goes back home very late. I remembered that once I was very worried about a quite hard problem from my homework. She helped me in time though she was too tired at night, and I was so thankful at that time. So my eyes were filled with tears. I imagine that she/he is not only young but also beautiful/handsome. She/he may be both patient with us and kind to us. She/he is also strict with us. I hope she/he is outgoing. He can understand us and make friends with us. If she/he likes doing sports, we can play together after class. She can get more knowledge from her/him. She is great. Let's wish her a better future. I would never forget it. From my mom, I got not only help but also the deep love. Thank you, my dear mom. Every day Liang Ling helps with the cooking, cleaning and washing. I asked her whether she was tired of doing so much housework. “Not really.” She smiled. “I've got used to it.” Though she is busy, she studies hard and gets good grades. What's more, she is always ready to help others. Everyone likes her because of her kindness. In our eyes, she always faces difficulties bravely. No matter how hard the life is, she never gives up. I am looking forward to seeing her/him! I'm glad to hear that you're planning to travel around China during the summer vacation. I'd like to invite you to my hometown Fujian for a visit. Nowadays, reading is becoming more and more popular among us. You asked me about festivals in China. Let me introduce some important ones to you. Of all the suggested books, I have decided to choose Secrets of English Words and Time for Kids. I'd like to tell you something about the Chinese Dragon Boat Festival and how I spent it this year. The book I'd like to share with you is The Old Man and the Sea, written by an American writer Ernest Hemingway. If possible, you may watch Han Show. Hope you'll have fun here. Then, we'll invite you to our class and talk about school life. In a word, it's helpful for our society to do some charity. Many hands make light work. Take actions now to make our society more beautiful! Once, our community held an old thing fair to raise money for the homeless people. Whether We Can Use Mobile Phones How Can a Teenager Have a Successful Life? Grades are not everything our class has had a discussion about whether we can use mobile phones. I have recently done a survey about how a teenager can have a successful life. I don't think grades are important. Students have different abilities and some of them can't be measured by grades, such as creativity, abilities to communicate and act. Some students think it is good to use mobile phones because they can take photos with them in our daily life. They can also listen to music to relax themselves in free time. Besides, using mobile phones makes it easy to keep in touch with their parents and friends. Most students believe it's necessary to study hard. After all, study plays a key role in their life. They also agree they should respect their parents, who look after them every day. Besides, they're ready to serve the society and in their opinion it's really meaningful. What's more, they think each teenager is supposed to make a good plan for future. To start with, I wasn't good at English and seldom got high scores on the exams. But one day, my teacher encouraged me to perform in an English play because of my good pronunciation and lively expressions. To perform well, I studied my lines many times and even dressed up like the character. While we were performing, I could hear my classmates cheering. How excited! Later, my teacher praised me for my wonderful acting and this made me more confident and interested in English. But some others don't think so. They think students shouldn't use mobile phones. Using mobile phones too much is bad for their eyes and it's a waste of time to chat with friends. Sometimes some students use mobile phones to play games. It will have a bad effect on study. In my opinion, I think we'd better not use mobile phones. We should spend more time on our study instead of using mobile phones. All in all, grades can be a way to measure students' achievements in schoolwork. However, different interests and abilities can make a student's a full man. From my opinion of view, we need to make some good friends so that we can learn from each other. Also, we must be active and exercise more to keep healthy because it's important to a successful life. There is an activity about Chinese traditional operas at 2:00 p.m. on July 1. It will be held on the playground in our school and all the teachers and students will attend.
所以,那天,在网上看到今年最火的演员张颂文老师,早已成家结婚,妻子美丽高挑,儿子活泼可爱,一家人幸福快乐地生活在北京郊区的美丽小院时,我虽然讨厌狗仔总爱探人隐私的恶习,但最大的感受是这俩字:
心安。
之前朱丹就晒出过两个小朋友的背影,还有周一围和张颂文玩跷跷板的照片,配文说“两小无猜”和“两大无猜”,现在看,这就是张颂文的儿子。
很多圈内朋友也提到过,比如疯驴子的扮演者就在直播中提到过张颂文已婚;
翁虹也在他的社交平台下留言说“弟妹和小外甥”,这都说明他已经有家庭了。
其实他谈起家庭也从来不避讳,张颂文以前在采访中就提到过自己已婚,还透露自己的妻子是一名素人,没有工作,目前在家照顾孩子。
是的,看到这个消息时,我完全没有女粉丝听闻男爱豆已婚已育事实后的扼腕哭泣。
相反,我有种得偿如愿的满足感:
“真好!张颂文老师有着如此圆满的家庭,真好!
尽管他美丽的妻子,不是大嫂陈书婷。”
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因为《狂飙》火得一塌糊涂后,江湖上流传很多张颂文老师“昔日苦难”的故事:
从印刷厂工人、旅游公司导游,到25岁以大龄青年的身份,考上北京电影学院,再到一年跑300多个剧组都被拒,买不起房,租住在郊外的房子里,冬天烧不起煤,一度到菜市场买打折的便宜菜……
这些掺杂着人生实苦与行业残酷的故事,总能精准地刺痛各行各业的默默无闻者,让人们在感同身受中得到治愈,也重拾希望:
原来,只要一直心怀热忱,不丢善良,真的有一天可以站在舞台中央,活成璀璨的太阳。
就像张颂文一样。
硬币的另一面是:
不管是严谨的官方媒体,还是煽情的自媒平台,为了达到某种反衬效果,在描述张颂文的过往时,都喜欢用昨日的苦难来衬托今日的辉煌,让人们在观看或阅读的落差中,跌落盲目共情的陷阱。
这种“代入感”造成的陷阱之一,就是《狂飙》中的高启强,在父母双亡后,为带大弟弟妹妹,直至三四十岁还未谈过恋爱。
二婚大嫂陈书婷,竟然是人到中年高启强的初恋。
于是乎,很多人在强烈的代入感中,傻傻地将戏外为了演员梦苦苦坚持的张颂文,和戏内为了高家人迟迟未婚的高启强,划了等号。
《狂飙》大火后,很多人沉浸于回味无穷的剧情里,忍不住去磕张颂文和高叶的CP,想当然地认为:
在演艺圈里被埋没了20年的张颂文,就像村里进城务工20年被各路老板不断欠薪的光头强一样,穷得只剩下裤衩,连媳妇都娶不上。
尤其是,张颂文对国内演员严重两极分化的昔日控诉,被反复推上热搜后:
“国内99.5%的演员和我一样,工作时间在18个小时,4个月的时间就拿几千块钱,收入低廉且不停被压榨,全中国顶多只有0.5%的演员衣食无忧……”
客观的真相呢?
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客观的真相是,张颂文虽然是大器晚成,今日红遍大江南北,家喻户晓,跻身顶流。
但,早在2003年,他还是北京电影学院的学生时,就出演了都市罪案剧《爱的代价》。
2005年,尚未大学毕业,张颂文是广东本土情景喜剧《乘龙快婿》的男一号——贾发。
2006年至今的17年间,张颂文不仅曾留任北影当过指导老师,且几乎每年都有参演或参与的作品:
从《西小河的夏天》,到《兰心大剧院》,再到《唐人街探案》……
因在表演指导界名气很大,2008年他从北影辞职,在北京成立了自己的工作室——“张颂文国际表演工作室”。
《狂飙》中扮演李响的李健,坦言曾是张颂文的学生。
也就是说,张颂文虽然大火于《狂飙》,但在此之前,在中国演艺圈里,他虽不是顶流,但也绝非籍籍无名——只是被媒介宣传得少,被公众知道的有限罢了。
张颂文大火后,在社交平台上翻红的诸多旧视频,也印证了这一点:
包括巩皇在内的很多大腕,都曾和张颂文扳着肩膀留下合影,也曾和张颂文一起走过红毯。
只是当时我们的目光,没有聚焦在他身上罢了。
是的啊,哪有那么多人一朝成名。
所有的大器晚成,是在成为“大器”之前,从选材、雕琢到面世,都有着不为人知但稳扎稳打的步步为营。
这么一想:
热爱花花草草,善待流浪猫狗,和附近菜市场的很多商贩打成一片,能写出《天堂火柴》这种柔软的文字,不忘记帮助过他的每个恩人,就连薄情于他的人都能选择宽宥的张颂文,怎么可能孤身一人至今呢?
连你我这般普通的人,都能找到臭味相投的爱人,生下调皮捣蛋的孩子,生于1975年的张颂文,在婚恋方面理应得到上苍的眷顾:
大嫂不是陈书婷。
但大嫂肯定有慧眼。
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也或许,恰恰因为,结婚生子的体验,让张颂文对人生和人性,有着更深刻入微的体验。
所以,不管是在《狂飙》中,还是在《隐秘的角落》里,面对女人和孩子的对手戏,他都演得如此走心入魂:
那些况味复杂的眼神,那些拍案叫绝的细节,固然有是他身为演员的表演天赋,又何尝不是他婚恋生活的反哺馈赠。
反观内娱的明星们,要么结婚生子后拼命捂着藏着掖着,要么看似单身却用下半身的欲望惹出一摊子黄赌毒的丑闻,而张颂文这样演员,却用一条和寻常人无异的踏实之路,告诉更多人:
只要演技过硬,只要人走得又稳又正,大大方方恋爱,坦坦荡荡结婚,顺其自然生孩子,也没什么不好的。
虽然,结婚生子从来不是人生的标配。
但心中有了安全岛后,人更有信心探索辽阔的海洋与丰饶的陆地。
愿现实中的大哥大嫂幸福,也愿每个热气腾腾的人圆满。