湖北养父扛煤气罐把女儿供成博士,24年后亲生父母甩下50万认亲,女儿一句话让他们傻眼

文摘   2024-12-31 00:11   江苏  

“假如你不曾养育我,给我温暖的生活,假如你不曾保护我,我的命运将会是什么……”


上世纪80年代,首部在大陆上映的台湾电影《搭错车》的主题曲《酒干倘卖无》爆火,并一直传唱至今。

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                             Do you agree that your parents have a second? Different students have different opinions about it. I am very happy to know that Datong School will start the summer camp. The middle school students from the Belt and Road countries will join it. I'd like to work for the summer camp. I want to be a cook, because I want to cook delicious food for students and make them know more about our food culture. I can make many kinds of foods, such as dumplings, noodles and so on. If I become a member of the summer camp, I will prepare delicious food carefully and keep the food clean and safe every day. I will try my best to let students have a wonderful time in our country. Today, as a greener means of transportation, bike-sharing is becoming more and more popular in many cities. It's known that it has many advantages. So it is enjoyed by lots of people. Some students agree with the idea. If so, they won't feel lonely and there will always be someone to play with. Besides, if their parents get older or ill, they can take turn to look after them. However, some students disagree. They worry that they will get less love from their parents if another comes to the family. What's worse, they may not get along well, or even fight against each other. First of all, it's very convenient for people to go somewhere. Also, it helps to reduce the traffic pressure. There will be less pollution because of bike-sharing. Besides, bike-sharing helps people take more exercise. In this way, it's helpful to people's health. As for me, I'd love to have a brother or sister as company, so that we can share our happiness and sorrow anytime. However, it also brings some problems. For example, some people throw them away after using bikes. Even some people destroy them, and some bikes are stolen by thieves. As long as we take good care of bikes, it will make our life better and better, and our environment will be more beautiful. I will try my best to let students have a wonderful time in our country. I am very happy to know that Datong School will start the summer camp. The middle school students from the Belt and Road countries will join it. As for me, I'd love to have a brother or sister as company, so that we can share our happiness and sorrow anytime. How to Improve Our Study Effectively? A great number of students can't finish their tasks, which leads to bad results and makes them less interested in their study. How can we solve the problem? Here are some suggestions. How to Spend Our Time Properly? You need to find an effective learning method. Take advantage of class time to listen to the teacher. Taking notes will help you remember what the teachers say. After class, you should review your lessons in time. You should also finish your homework carefully. If you have discovered any mistakes, correct them immediately. This will help you form a good learning habit. There is no endless time for us to spend. So how can we make good use of time to make our study and life better? Besides, you need to do some exercise. It can not only make you relaxed but also build up your body. First, we should make sure that the time is under control of ourselves. Second, more time should be used in study. As we all know, it takes time to study words or to do some exercises. So, to study well, you are supposed to spend much time on it. Third, we should spend proper time in developing our interests. Fourth, spending time with our family and friends is necessary. All in all, you should make good use of time on study and relaxation. If you have any problems in your study, you can ask your classmates or teachers for help. All in all, time is a good gift from the god. Only when we spend it properly, can we make our life meaningful and colorful. If you follow the advice that I have mentioned above, you will be successful. From 10:00 to 10:55, we plan to sing, dance, perform magic tricks and put on a short play at the farewell party. At 11:00, it's time for us to take photos together and give telephone numbers and addresses to each other. We can also write farewell words, give gifts and so on. After that, we will do some cleaning for our classroom. The party will be over at 11:30. I'm always working hard for a bright future. I imagine what my life in 20 years will be like. In 20 years, I will play an important role in my family. I will take care of my parents. Maybe I will be married and have a lovely child. In my free time, I will get together with my good friends to talk about the past school life. We can also do other things such as gardening and doing yoga. What's more, I will have a job and face new challenges. I think I will be a doctor and help patients. Last but not least, maybe I will have a robot. It can help me a lot in my daily life. Attention, please!Our class is going to have a farewell party in our classroom on the morning of June 26th, 2017. At 9:00, we will talk about what are you going to be when you grow up? After that, we will discuss how to spend our summer holidays. In a word, I hope my life in 20 years will be a better one! In my opinion, everyone should try to be civilized and follow these rules of using bikes. As long as we take good care of bikes, they will make our life better and better, and our environment will be more beautiful. Come to My Hometown Fujian for a Visit Hi, John, I'm glad to hear that you're planning to travel around China during the summer vacation. I'd like to invite you to my hometown Fujian for a visit. My Favorites Subject Glad to hear from you. I'd like to tell you something about the Chinese Dragon Boat Festival and how I spent it this year.  Fujian lies in the southeast of China with Fuzhou as its capital city. It has a population of over 38 million. Because of the nice environment, it's known as Refreshing Fujian, which attracts millions of tourists from home and abroad. If you come here, you can enjoy fresh air, blue sky as well as beautiful mountains and clear rivers. Many famous places of interest like Mount Wuxi and Gulag Island are well worth visiting. Besides, you can taste various kinds of delicious food. In school we study many subjects, such as Chinese, English, geography and so on. But my favorite subject is English.  How Do I Improve My English Today I am glad to introduce a teenager. His name is Cheng. Hello, everyone, now I want to give you an introduction about myself. My name is Gina Green. Gina is my first name and Green is my family name. I am a girl at the age of 12. I like chatting on the Internet, and my QQ number is. What's yours? I visited Hong Kong last summer holiday. It's a beautiful city and I had a wonderful time there. I'm Li Hue and I'm very happy to stand here to talk about myself. I have a good friend. Her name is May. She is 12 years old. Her telephone number is. Her birthday is March 5th. She is good at English and Cheese. She often plays the piano. She likes reading books and listening to the music. Her hobbies are reading and listening to music. She is a nice girl. We often help each other. We are good friends. There is always something unforgettable in my life, especially the story between my friend and me. My friend Daniel encourages me a lot in many ways. Now let me tell you something about him. Miss Wang is my English teacher. She looks very young. She's about thirty years old, and she wears glasses. She's funny. But she is strict with us. She wants us to study hard. Her lessons are interesting. We are very happy in her class and we all like her lessons. She is a good teacher, and we all like her. Hello, everyone! I'm Li Mei. Look! This is my family photo. This is my grandmother. She is 58. This is my father. He is a teacher. He is 36, and my mother is 36, too. Who's that boy? Oh, he is my brother. He is 13 and I am 12. My brother and I are students. Liang Ling, a 15-year-old girl, is a student in Class 1, Grade 9. How time flies! Three years has passed. I will graduate from junior high school.  Look! This is Tom's room. His photos are on the wall. His T-shirt is on the bed. His baseball bat is behind the dresser. The keys are in the drawer. The computer is on the desk. Where is Tom's baseball? Oh, it's under the bed. What is on the floor? They are Tom's shoes, socks and computer games. What do you think of Tom's room? He is a helpful boy who often helps people around him.  I still remember what happened between my best friend Lin Tao and me. I hope you can come to China next year and spend the festival with me. I will continue to study hard in my English studies and improve it to a higher stage. To improve our English, the school has given a list of books for us to read this summer. Of all the suggested books, I have decided to choose Secrets of English Words and Time for Kids. Knowing English makes my traveling much easier. I can make many foreign friends, too. This tells us that nothing seems terrible as long as we have a strong will and a brave heart. The first one is a book which may help me use English words better. By reading this book, I will surely learn more new words. This will make my future study much easier. Time for Kids is a popular magazine specially written for students, in which I will read interesting stories and have a taste of teen life abroad. So it must be of great fun to read it. Besides, reading can help me know more about the outside world and make me enrich my knowledge. That's why my dream shop is a bookstore. Being part of this activity, I am expecting a big step forward in my English. There will be a big reading room in it and people can sit in the chair to read their favorite books or magazines. Do remember no matter where we go, be sure not to throw litter everywhere.  I am very glad to hear that you will come back to China and study in my school next term. Here are some suggestions for you. I'm sorry to know that you are having some problems now. I'd like to give you some suggestions. In order to have more chances to practice and improve English, we are involved in many kinds of group work and pair work activities in English classes.  I hope my suggestions will be helpful for you. A great number of students can't finish their tasks, which leads to bad results and makes them less interested in their study. How can we solve the problem? Here are some suggestions.  So I would like to suggest that everyone should borrow more books and read good books.  Only when we spend it properly, can we make our life meaningful and colorful. There is no endless time for us to spend. So how can we make good use of time to make our study and life better? On that day, we eat; go to watch lantern shows and dragon dances to pray for health and happiness for the whole year. The Dragon Boat Festival falls on May 5th this year. People all across China eat Zongzi and dragon boat races are held in many places to remember a great ancient person Queue. I think English is very interesting. It's used widely in the world. Wherever you go, you can use it. I can not only learn many new words and phrases but also get the latest news about western countries. Besides, English is a global language. Knowing English makes my travel much easier. I can make many foreign friends, too. What Should I Do For the Strive? As we know, Anshan city is becoming more and more beautiful. Actually, Anshan is bidding for the title of, which is a must for our city to become green and famous in China.  As a middle school student, I am terribly happy for that, because I will do what I can do to help. What should we do then? Firstly, we cannot litter anywhere and we should keep the streets clean. Secondly, we should follow traffic rules at all times to keep safe. Thirdly, we should treat each other politely and behave in a civilized way. More importantly, we must plant more trees, flowers and plants to make the city become greener. In the future, I will take notes carefully and focus on correct spelling and grammar. After class, it is a good idea for me to read more articles from English newspapers or magazines. When I have some problems with my English speaking, I will turn to my teachers and friends for help. I will continue to study hard in my English studies and improve it to a higher stage. I hope you can come to China next year and spend the festival with me. To sum up, it is our duty to contribute to and to struggle for the honor of, isn't it?  As for it, different students have different thoughts. Some students stand by it, others are against it. As far as I'm concerned, I think study trip is good for students, and here are my reasons. I'm looking forward to meeting you! We had three days off for this festival this year. During that time, I went for a picnic in the countryside with my good friends, and of course, ate Zongzi with my family. I also watched the dragon boat races on TV. I enjoyed the holiday very much. In a word, I'm sure you will enjoy yourself here. He is very popular in our school because he is polite to everyone.  Of all kinds of movies, I like comedies best. I think they're interesting. My favorite actor is Jackie. I like his movie King of Comedy. I think it's a successful comedy. For action movies, I like The Lord of the Ring best. It's exciting. I like documentaries because they're true stories. I like only some thrillers. Many thrillers are scary and boring. My favorite memory of my dad is that he always wants to keep me from making mistakes but he tries to let me find my own way, even though his heart breaks in silence when I get hurt.  As for my dream, I want to be a teacher; I'll make friends with my kids. I have a good weekend. On Saturday morning, I do my homework. After lunch, I go shopping with my mother. At about five o'clock, I go to play basketball with my friend. On Sunday, I watch a football game on TV. I often help my mother do housework. I watch TV with my parents in the evening. Then I go to bed at nine o'clock. I'm very happy The next morning, I found a piece of paper. It said, never give up, dear. I am proud of you! Like many other boys, I enjoy doing sports, but math's and science are my favorite. My favorite subject is English. I like it because it is interesting. I have English every day. I can speak a little English. I join the school English club. Every afternoon I go there to talk in English. I can see English movies and read English books. I think it is useful for me. I want to learn it well. I like English very much. I would be very thankful if you could give me the chance. As a student, I think I should always try my best to work for our school. Though she is busy, she studies hard and gets good grades. This is my best dad. I love him and I'm so proud of him. Although I am not the best now, I will make every effort to become a top student and I believe you will be proud of me. I imagine that she is not only young but also beautiful.  Hello, everyone! I don't like sports, but I like eating very much. I eat a lot food every day. For breakfast, I like milk, eggs and bread a lot. For lunch, I like French fries, chicken, hamburgers and apples. For dinner, I like fruits, vegetables and rice. Although I wasn't willing to do it, I still lent it to him because he was my best friend.  I am sure that I can be a good volunteer at the International Dragon Competition. After reading so many books, I get a lot of knowledge and also feel relaxed.  I get up early at six every day. After doing some morning exercises, I read English for twenty minutes. At seven I have breakfast. After breakfast I take my schoolbag and go to school. Our class begins at eight, and we have four classes in the morning. After lunch at 12 o'clock, I take a short rest in the classroom. We have three more classes in the afternoon. After school at five, I go back home. I often help my mother do some housework. Sometimes I watch TV. After dinner, I begin to do my homework. Then I take a shower. I go to bed at nine thirty. We are going to have some meaningful activities. To express thanks to our teachers, we each should say thankful words to our dear teachers.  It's a chance for you to learn more about Chinese traditional culture. Come and join us! I think we'll have a great time. Before you arrive, we will prepare a clean and bright room for you. It's really hard for me to say goodbye. I wish my school to have a better future. To begin with, we need to be clear about the location of the facilities.  I hope all of our younger schoolmates can live and study happily in our school. First of all, I will volunteer to do some cleaning with my classmates, such as cleaning the windows and sweeping the floor. To keep our school clean, we will ask our schoolmates not to litter at school. I am Very Grateful to My Mom Now, I'll graduate from middle school. I am very grateful to my mom because she has done much for me. I think words can't show my thanks to her.  My Classmate Liang Ling Liang Ling, a 15-year-old girl, is a student in Class 1, Grade 9. She comes from a poor family. Since she was a little girl, she has cared for her family. My New Head teacher How lucky I am to be his daughter! How time flies! Three years has passed. I will graduate from junior high school. I will enter a new school to study. What will my new head teacher be like? My mom is an excellent teacher and we are in the same school. She works hard and often goes back home very late. I remembered that once I was very worried about a quite hard problem from my homework. She helped me in time though she was too tired at night, and I was so thankful at that time. So my eyes were filled with tears.  I imagine that she/he is not only young but also beautiful/handsome. She/he may be both patient with us and kind to us. She/he is also strict with us. I hope she/he is outgoing. He can understand us and make friends with us. If she/he likes doing sports, we can play together after class. She can get more knowledge from her/him. She is great. Let's wish her a better future.  I would never forget it. From my mom, I got not only help but also the deep love. Thank you, my dear mom.  Every day Liang Ling helps with the cooking, cleaning and washing. I asked her whether she was tired of doing so much housework. “Not really.” She smiled. “I've got used to it.” Though she is busy, she studies hard and gets good grades. What's more, she is always ready to help others. Everyone likes her because of her kindness. In our eyes, she always faces difficulties bravely. No matter how hard the life is, she never gives up. I am looking forward to seeing her/him! I'm glad to hear that you're planning to travel around China during the summer vacation. I'd like to invite you to my hometown Fujian for a visit. Nowadays, reading is becoming more and more popular among us. You asked me about festivals in China. Let me introduce some important ones to you. Of all the suggested books, I have decided to choose Secrets of English Words and Time for Kids. I'd like to tell you something about the Chinese Dragon Boat Festival and how I spent it this year. The book I'd like to share with you is The Old Man and the Sea, written by an American writer Ernest Hemingway. If possible, you may watch Han Show. Hope you'll have fun here. Then, we'll invite you to our class and talk about school life. In a word, it's helpful for our society to do some charity. Many hands make light work. Take actions now to make our society more beautiful! Once, our community held an old thing fair to raise money for the homeless people. Whether We Can Use Mobile Phones How Can a Teenager Have a Successful Life? Grades are not everything our class has had a discussion about whether we can use mobile phones. I have recently done a survey about how a teenager can have a successful life. I don't think grades are important. Students have different abilities and some of them can't be measured by grades, such as creativity, abilities to communicate and act. Some students think it is good to use mobile phones because they can take photos with them in our daily life. They can also listen to music to relax themselves in free time. Besides, using mobile phones makes it easy to keep in touch with their parents and friends. Most students believe it's necessary to study hard. After all, study plays a key role in their life. They also agree they should respect their parents, who look after them every day. Besides, they're ready to serve the society and in their opinion it's really meaningful. What's more, they think each teenager is supposed to make a good plan for future. To start with, I wasn't good at English and seldom got high scores on the exams. But one day, my teacher encouraged me to perform in an English play because of my good pronunciation and lively expressions. To perform well, I studied my lines many times and even dressed up like the character. While we were performing, I could hear my classmates cheering. How excited! Later, my teacher praised me for my wonderful acting and this made me more confident and interested in English. But some others don't think so. They think students shouldn't use mobile phones. Using mobile phones too much is bad for their eyes and it's a waste of time to chat with friends. Sometimes some students use mobile phones to play games. It will have a bad effect on study. In my opinion, I think we'd better not use mobile phones. We should spend more time on our study instead of using mobile phones. All in all, grades can be a way to measure students' achievements in schoolwork. However, different interests and abilities can make a student's a full man. From my opinion of view, we need to make some good friends so that we can learn from each other. Also, we must be active and exercise more to keep healthy because it's important to a successful life. There is an activity about Chinese traditional operas at 2:00 p.m. on July 1. It will be held on the playground in our school and all the teachers and students will attend.

《搭错车》讲述了台湾退伍老兵哑叔靠收购空酒瓶和捡破烂,把弃婴阿美养育成人的感人故事。



这部影片一度被誉为“哭戏”经典之作,直到今天,哑叔抱着阿美时那含蓄却又暖流奔涌的微笑,仍令观众动容。


而湖北汉子肖崇阳和养女肖晶晶之间善孝接力传承的故事就像是一部现实版《搭错车》。


肖崇阳是位退伍军人,他日复一日年复一年地扛煤气罐,把捡来的养女一路供养到读博士。眼看苦尽甘来,养女的亲生父母却突然出现,甩给肖崇阳50万元,说是要认回被遗弃了24年的女儿。


肖崇阳是否会接受50万抚养费?在生恩和养恩之间,肖晶晶又会做出怎样的选择?



01
捡来的掌上明珠
贫寒夫妻苦中有乐

肖崇阳和肖晶晶的故事始于1987年的寒冬。


那天是腊月二十四,肖崇阳陪妻子祁春兰从孝感190医院(现孝感四医院)做完检查。刚走出来,不禁打了个寒颤,他赶紧把病弱的妻子搂紧了些。

比起眼前的天气,更让他们感到寒冷的是诊断的结果。由于先天疾病,祁春兰的身体已经不适合孕育孩子了。


刚走出医院不远,肖崇阳和妻子突然听到有婴儿的啼哭声。一开始,他们还以为是出现了幻觉。可嘤嘤的啼哭声虽然微弱,但真真切切。


他们急忙四处查看,终于发现在垃圾桶旁的一个纸箱里,一床薄旧毯子裹着一个婴儿,冻得只剩一丝微弱的气息。


当时风雪肆虐,肖崇阳和妻子都担心婴儿被冻坏,来不及多想,赶紧抱起孩子返回医院。


经过检查,医生说还好婴儿被及时发现,没有性命之忧,只是需要保暖。肖崇阳和妻子悬着的心这才放了下来。


护士见多不怪,纷纷议论,说这女婴可能又是被想生儿子的父母遗弃了。

听到护士们议论,祁春兰心里竟没来由地涌起一股热流。可他们也不敢确认这个女婴就是被遗弃的,于是抱着孩子从医院出来后直接去了派出所,请求警察帮忙寻找孩子的父母。


之后,肖崇阳夫妇便把孩子抱回了家,一边悉心照料,一边等待有人来认领。可过了好些日子,孩子的父母始终没有音信。


那一刻,肖崇阳和祁春兰都觉得是老天眷顾他们,特意把这么个小天使送到他们眼前。


夫妻俩经过商量,决定收养这个弃婴。他们前往孝感民政局办了领养手续,正式成为了这个孩子的养父养母。



欢喜不已的俩人还给这个粉嫩软糯的女婴取了个好听的名字——肖晶晶,希望她的一生都明媚闪亮。


那时肖崇阳刚退伍不久,由于文化程度不高,被安置在当地棉纺厂的食堂做了一名打杂工。祁春兰身体患有先天疾病,基本没有劳动能力,只能在家操持家务,家里的开支全靠肖崇阳的微薄收入。

如今多了一个嗷嗷待哺的婴儿,光是每月的奶粉钱就是一笔不小的开支,肖崇阳夫妇原本拮据的日子变得更加捉襟见肘。


邻居建议他们用米糊喂养,这样可以减少开支。肖崇阳看着怀里咿咿呀呀的女儿,疼爱地说:“不碍事,孩子长身体,需要营养。”夫妇俩不舍得吃不舍得穿,也要省下钱来给孩子买奶粉。


肖晶晶的到来给这对贫寒夫妻带来了无限的欢乐,这种欢乐盖过了贫穷、病痛和意外。他们太爱这个孩子了,爱到恨不得时刻把小晶晶捧在手心里。


在养父养母的呵护下,小晶晶健康快乐地一天天长大。



02
生活变故接二连三
坚强女儿不怨不弃

肖崇阳一家三口平静温馨的生活被时代的变革打破了。


1990年,肖崇阳所在的棉纺厂改制,他成了一名下岗工人。一没学历二没技能的他只能靠体力赚钱,先是拉了四五年的板车,1995年开始给人送煤气罐。

但无论生活如何艰辛,肖晶晶从养父母那里得到的庇护和宠爱丝毫不亚于其他孩子。


随着年龄增长,肖晶晶听到玩伴背着她议论,说她是爸妈从垃圾堆里捡来的。


“妈妈,他们说的都是真的吗?”不止一次,肖晶晶委屈地问妈妈。


每次祁春兰都肯定地回答:“谁说的?你就是妈妈生的孩子!”然后牵着晶晶,去找那些孩子的家长评理。一次次,晶晶都相信了妈妈说的是真的,她就是爸妈的亲生孩子。

殊不知,是祁春兰提前和那些邻居、家长打好了招呼,请求他们配合隐瞒晶晶的身世。


在和睦有爱的氛围里长大的晶晶,开朗、自信、懂事,不仅学习努力,回到家还抢着分担家务。


然而,真相还是到了被揭开的那一天。


2001年,祁春兰的身体终是没能扛住病魔的侵袭。临终前,她和丈夫商量,与其等自己走了让女儿从别人嘴里知道身世,不如自己亲口告诉她,以免女儿遗憾一生。肖崇阳也觉得孩子长大了,已经明事理,有权决定自己的去留。


于是夫妻俩把晶晶叫病床前,祁春兰艰难地道出真相:“你以前听到的那些议论,其实都是真的,你的确不是妈妈生的孩子……”并表示,如果亲生父母找来,她可以自己选择认这边还是那边。

听完父母道出自己的身世,晶晶半天没缓过神儿来:自己竟然是个被遗弃的孩子,可爸爸妈妈却一直对自己这么好。


14岁的肖晶晶经历了短暂的震惊后,突然哭喊着拉着妈妈的手:“妈,不管我是不是您亲生的,我永远都是您的女儿!”


祁春兰在女儿撕心裂肺的哭喊里,欣慰又不舍地阖上了双眼。


经历身世和养母去世的双重打击时,离中考仅剩两个月时间,但坚强懂事的肖晶晶没有因此颓废,在她看来,更加努力地学习,无疑是回报养父母的最好方式。


这年,肖晶晶以优异成绩考入孝感一中。


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养父扛煤气罐供出才女
养女勤工俭学保送读博

为了给女儿更好的明天,肖崇阳更加拼命地扛煤气罐。每天6点起床,随便扒两口剩饭就两口开水,便蹬着那辆破旧的三轮车出门了。他要收集用户的空煤气罐,在煤气站8点开门前赶到。


那时的楼房有电梯的不多,肖崇阳要把沉甸甸的煤气罐扛在肩上,一趟趟、一个个台阶吃力地往上走。


看到晚上回到家累得直不起腰的父亲,肖晶晶疼在心里。她深知父亲的艰辛不易,从不乱花钱,学习也非常刻苦,因为她知道家里的钱大部分都花在自己身上了。


而肖崇阳为了省钱也为了省下时间多送一罐煤气多赚10块钱,午饭通常是在街上买两个包子将就,晚饭则是两碗米饭就着一个清炒蔬菜或是几片泡萝卜,一块拳头大的腊肉都不舍得吃,要留给女儿放假回家时吃。


长期的超负荷劳动和节俭生活,让肖崇阳落下了关节炎、骨质增生、高血压等毛病,他也只是买五六元一盒的药缓解一下。

在艰难困苦的日子里,女儿是肖崇阳全部的慰藉和骄傲。凡是熟悉肖崇阳的街坊邻居都羡慕他有一个争气的女儿,但也有人眼红,讥讽道:“成绩再好有什么用,万一亲生父母找来,就竹篮打水一场空啰。”


听到这样的话,肖崇阳总是憨憨一笑回应道:“我女儿不是那样的人,再说她是读书的好苗子,只要我还有一口气,就会一直供她。”

2005年,肖晶晶以优异成绩考上华中农业大学应用生物技术专业。


为了给父亲减轻负担,肖晶晶省吃俭用,每月仅150元的生活费对她来说绰绰有余。她的生活开支通常是早晚餐各1元、午餐2元,其他就是买牙膏、洗衣粉之类的生活必需品。


除了外出勤工俭学,肖晶晶很少逛街。她当过家教,卖过报纸,还当了两年多的“摆车工”,每天负责把宿舍楼前的几百辆自行车摆放整齐,每月可赚120元。再加上每年获得的奖学金,到后来,肖晶晶基本不用再向父亲要生活费了。

曾经肖崇阳赚钱的动力全来自女儿,如今,女儿开始不需要他这份经济上的给予了,这反倒让肖崇阳感觉生活空落落的。


为了看女儿一眼,肖崇阳坐火车转汽车去学校找过肖晶晶两次。每次见到女儿后,和女儿说会儿话,硬塞给她几百块钱,然后不顾肖晶晶的执意挽留,扭头便往回赶。


“不能影响她的学习。”肖崇阳总是这样固执地说。


大四那年,品学兼优的肖晶晶被保送读本校的研究生,2011年又被保送攻读博士学位。


养父扛16年煤气罐把养女培养成博士,这件事轰动了孝感城。当地媒体报道了肖崇阳父女的感人事迹,肖晶晶的身世也被更多人关注。



就在父女俩都欣喜着终于苦尽甘来时,一对自称是肖晶晶亲生父母的中年夫妇突然出现,把肖崇阳父女的生活搅起了一阵波澜。


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亲生父母找上门
女儿拒绝认亲惹争议

原来看了媒体报道的文章后,肖晶晶的亲生父母多方打听找上门来。


夫妇二人诉说当年实属无奈才做出遗弃孩子的选择,请求肖晶晶原谅他们。


原来在肖晶晶出生之前,他们已经有了3个女儿。肖晶晶降临在他们生意失败、负债累累之际,他们无力再抚养一个“多余”的女儿,便把出生仅14天的女儿遗弃在医院附近。而今家境好转,他们希望认回女儿。


同时,他们表示会对晶晶的养父进行补偿,边说便从随身携带的大包里掏出数捆百元大钞,放在肖崇阳面前:“这50万元,感谢你这些年来对晶晶的照顾。”

面对自称是晶晶亲生父母的这对夫妇,肖崇阳内心波涛翻滚。而一旁的肖晶晶也同样情绪难平。她无法想象,自己身体里流淌的竟是眼前这对陌生人的血液。口口声声称是自己“亲生父母”的二人,于肖晶晶而言,是全然陌生的。


令人尴尬窒息的沉默之后,肖崇阳缓缓开口:“钱我一分不要,闺女认你们我也不会拦着,让晶晶自己决定吧。”


没等亲生父母接话,肖晶晶抢先说:“我只有一个爸妈,我妈叫祁春兰,10年前走了,我现在只剩一个爸,他叫肖崇阳。你们走吧,我不认识你们。”

俗话说:“生而未养,断指可还;未生而养,百世难还。”面对亲生父母,肖晶晶坚定地做出了自己的选择。


而这一选择也一度把肖晶晶推到了风口浪尖。有人指责她太过寡情冷漠,说毕竟生育之恩大于天;也有人为她拍手叫好,称其有情有义,懂得明辨是非。


其实,骨血至亲和养育之恩,孰重孰轻,爱是唯一衡量的标准;亲情的维系,依靠的不是血缘,而是彼此的爱。


2013年,肖晶晶博士毕业后入职上海农科院。工作稳定后,她将养父接到身边颐养天年。

2017年,一向勤耕不止的肖晶晶接到加拿大卡毕兰诺大学的通知书。正当她整装待发之际,68岁的肖崇阳被确诊为胃癌。


一边是渴求已久的深造机会,一边是疾病缠身的老父亲,没有太多权衡、纠结,肖晶晶选择放弃留学机会,一边上班,一边侍奉在父亲的病榻前。


被女儿坚定不移地选择、不离不弃地守护,或许是肖崇阳此生最大的幸福。


2018年,肖崇阳在女儿的陪护中走得了无遗憾。


如今已是中国农业科学院研究员的肖晶晶,在自己热爱的领域里发光发热。提及当年拒绝认亲,她称自己“只是做了一次正确的选择”。对于亲生父母,她虽拒绝相认,但也不再怨恨,她心中只有对养父母无限的思念。


或许肖晶晶是不幸的,出生就被亲生父母遗弃,但同时又是幸运的,因为养父母给了她丰盈一生的温暖,让她得以在不幸中走出了属于自己的美好未来。


来源:婚姻与家庭杂志。中国家庭幸福生活引领者,专注女性成长与婚姻幸福,探讨如何更好地爱自己、爱家人。《婚姻与家庭》杂志出品。

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