四川老太相亲后再婚,新婚之夜,新郎突然大哭:60年前你曾嫁过我!

文摘   2024-12-04 00:11   江苏  
1997年,在重庆江北,82岁的老人邱云,在干女儿的介绍下结识了比自己小2岁的刘泽华,两人一见如故,来往了一段时间后,觉得彼此年龄也都不小了,想做个伴彼此也有个照应。

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                             Do you agree that your parents have a second? Different students have different opinions about it. I am very happy to know that Datong School will start the summer camp. The middle school students from the Belt and Road countries will join it. I'd like to work for the summer camp. I want to be a cook, because I want to cook delicious food for students and make them know more about our food culture. I can make many kinds of foods, such as dumplings, noodles and so on. If I become a member of the summer camp, I will prepare delicious food carefully and keep the food clean and safe every day. I will try my best to let students have a wonderful time in our country. Today, as a greener means of transportation, bike-sharing is becoming more and more popular in many cities. It's known that it has many advantages. So it is enjoyed by lots of people. Some students agree with the idea. If so, they won't feel lonely and there will always be someone to play with. Besides, if their parents get older or ill, they can take turn to look after them. However, some students disagree. They worry that they will get less love from their parents if another comes to the family. What's worse, they may not get along well, or even fight against each other. First of all, it's very convenient for people to go somewhere. Also, it helps to reduce the traffic pressure. There will be less pollution because of bike-sharing. Besides, bike-sharing helps people take more exercise. In this way, it's helpful to people's health. As for me, I'd love to have a brother or sister as company, so that we can share our happiness and sorrow anytime. However, it also brings some problems. For example, some people throw them away after using bikes. Even some people destroy them, and some bikes are stolen by thieves. As long as we take good care of bikes, it will make our life better and better, and our environment will be more beautiful. I will try my best to let students have a wonderful time in our country. I am very happy to know that Datong School will start the summer camp. The middle school students from the Belt and Road countries will join it. As for me, I'd love to have a brother or sister as company, so that we can share our happiness and sorrow anytime. How to Improve Our Study Effectively? A great number of students can't finish their tasks, which leads to bad results and makes them less interested in their study. How can we solve the problem? Here are some suggestions. How to Spend Our Time Properly? You need to find an effective learning method. Take advantage of class time to listen to the teacher. Taking notes will help you remember what the teachers say. After class, you should review your lessons in time. You should also finish your homework carefully. If you have discovered any mistakes, correct them immediately. This will help you form a good learning habit. There is no endless time for us to spend. So how can we make good use of time to make our study and life better? Besides, you need to do some exercise. It can not only make you relaxed but also build up your body. First, we should make sure that the time is under control of ourselves. Second, more time should be used in study. As we all know, it takes time to study words or to do some exercises. So, to study well, you are supposed to spend much time on it. Third, we should spend proper time in developing our interests. Fourth, spending time with our family and friends is necessary. All in all, you should make good use of time on study and relaxation. If you have any problems in your study, you can ask your classmates or teachers for help. All in all, time is a good gift from the god. Only when we spend it properly, can we make our life meaningful and colorful. If you follow the advice that I have mentioned above, you will be successful. From 10:00 to 10:55, we plan to sing, dance, perform magic tricks and put on a short play at the farewell party. At 11:00, it's time for us to take photos together and give telephone numbers and addresses to each other. We can also write farewell words, give gifts and so on. After that, we will do some cleaning for our classroom. The party will be over at 11:30. I'm always working hard for a bright future. I imagine what my life in 20 years will be like. In 20 years, I will play an important role in my family. I will take care of my parents. Maybe I will be married and have a lovely child. In my free time, I will get together with my good friends to talk about the past school life. We can also do other things such as gardening and doing yoga. What's more, I will have a job and face new challenges. I think I will be a doctor and help patients. Last but not least, maybe I will have a robot. It can help me a lot in my daily life. Attention, please!Our class is going to have a farewell party in our classroom on the morning of June 26th, 2017. At 9:00, we will talk about what are you going to be when you grow up? After that, we will discuss how to spend our summer holidays. In a word, I hope my life in 20 years will be a better one! In my opinion, everyone should try to be civilized and follow these rules of using bikes. As long as we take good care of bikes, they will make our life better and better, and our environment will be more beautiful. Come to My Hometown Fujian for a Visit Hi, John, I'm glad to hear that you're planning to travel around China during the summer vacation. I'd like to invite you to my hometown Fujian for a visit. My Favorites Subject Glad to hear from you. I'd like to tell you something about the Chinese Dragon Boat Festival and how I spent it this year.  Fujian lies in the southeast of China with Fuzhou as its capital city. It has a population of over 38 million. Because of the nice environment, it's known as Refreshing Fujian, which attracts millions of tourists from home and abroad. If you come here, you can enjoy fresh air, blue sky as well as beautiful mountains and clear rivers. Many famous places of interest like Mount Wuxi and Gulag Island are well worth visiting. Besides, you can taste various kinds of delicious food. In school we study many subjects, such as Chinese, English, geography and so on. But my favorite subject is English.  How Do I Improve My English Today I am glad to introduce a teenager. His name is Cheng. Hello, everyone, now I want to give you an introduction about myself. My name is Gina Green. Gina is my first name and Green is my family name. I am a girl at the age of 12. I like chatting on the Internet, and my QQ number is. What's yours? I visited Hong Kong last summer holiday. It's a beautiful city and I had a wonderful time there. I'm Li Hue and I'm very happy to stand here to talk about myself. I have a good friend. Her name is May. She is 12 years old. Her telephone number is. Her birthday is March 5th. She is good at English and Cheese. She often plays the piano. She likes reading books and listening to the music. Her hobbies are reading and listening to music. She is a nice girl. We often help each other. We are good friends. There is always something unforgettable in my life, especially the story between my friend and me. My friend Daniel encourages me a lot in many ways. Now let me tell you something about him. Miss Wang is my English teacher. She looks very young. She's about thirty years old, and she wears glasses. She's funny. But she is strict with us. She wants us to study hard. Her lessons are interesting. We are very happy in her class and we all like her lessons. She is a good teacher, and we all like her. Hello, everyone! I'm Li Mei. Look! This is my family photo. This is my grandmother. She is 58. This is my father. He is a teacher. He is 36, and my mother is 36, too. Who's that boy? Oh, he is my brother. He is 13 and I am 12. My brother and I are students. Liang Ling, a 15-year-old girl, is a student in Class 1, Grade 9. How time flies! Three years has passed. I will graduate from junior high school.  Look! This is Tom's room. His photos are on the wall. His T-shirt is on the bed. His baseball bat is behind the dresser. The keys are in the drawer. The computer is on the desk. Where is Tom's baseball? Oh, it's under the bed. What is on the floor? They are Tom's shoes, socks and computer games. What do you think of Tom's room? He is a helpful boy who often helps people around him.  I still remember what happened between my best friend Lin Tao and me. I hope you can come to China next year and spend the festival with me. I will continue to study hard in my English studies and improve it to a higher stage. To improve our English, the school has given a list of books for us to read this summer. Of all the suggested books, I have decided to choose Secrets of English Words and Time for Kids. Knowing English makes my traveling much easier. I can make many foreign friends, too. This tells us that nothing seems terrible as long as we have a strong will and a brave heart. The first one is a book which may help me use English words better. By reading this book, I will surely learn more new words. This will make my future study much easier. Time for Kids is a popular magazine specially written for students, in which I will read interesting stories and have a taste of teen life abroad. So it must be of great fun to read it. Besides, reading can help me know more about the outside world and make me enrich my knowledge. That's why my dream shop is a bookstore. Being part of this activity, I am expecting a big step forward in my English. There will be a big reading room in it and people can sit in the chair to read their favorite books or magazines. Do remember no matter where we go, be sure not to throw litter everywhere.  I am very glad to hear that you will come back to China and study in my school next term. Here are some suggestions for you. I'm sorry to know that you are having some problems now. I'd like to give you some suggestions. In order to have more chances to practice and improve English, we are involved in many kinds of group work and pair work activities in English classes.  I hope my suggestions will be helpful for you. A great number of students can't finish their tasks, which leads to bad results and makes them less interested in their study. How can we solve the problem? Here are some suggestions.  So I would like to suggest that everyone should borrow more books and read good books.  Only when we spend it properly, can we make our life meaningful and colorful. There is no endless time for us to spend. So how can we make good use of time to make our study and life better? On that day, we eat; go to watch lantern shows and dragon dances to pray for health and happiness for the whole year. The Dragon Boat Festival falls on May 5th this year. People all across China eat Zongzi and dragon boat races are held in many places to remember a great ancient person Queue. I think English is very interesting. It's used widely in the world. Wherever you go, you can use it. I can not only learn many new words and phrases but also get the latest news about western countries. Besides, English is a global language. Knowing English makes my travel much easier. I can make many foreign friends, too. What Should I Do For the Strive? As we know, Anshan city is becoming more and more beautiful. Actually, Anshan is bidding for the title of, which is a must for our city to become green and famous in China.  As a middle school student, I am terribly happy for that, because I will do what I can do to help. What should we do then? Firstly, we cannot litter anywhere and we should keep the streets clean. Secondly, we should follow traffic rules at all times to keep safe. Thirdly, we should treat each other politely and behave in a civilized way. More importantly, we must plant more trees, flowers and plants to make the city become greener. In the future, I will take notes carefully and focus on correct spelling and grammar. After class, it is a good idea for me to read more articles from English newspapers or magazines. When I have some problems with my English speaking, I will turn to my teachers and friends for help. I will continue to study hard in my English studies and improve it to a higher stage. I hope you can come to China next year and spend the festival with me. To sum up, it is our duty to contribute to and to struggle for the honor of, isn't it?  As for it, different students have different thoughts. Some students stand by it, others are against it. As far as I'm concerned, I think study trip is good for students, and here are my reasons. I'm looking forward to meeting you! We had three days off for this festival this year. During that time, I went for a picnic in the countryside with my good friends, and of course, ate Zongzi with my family. I also watched the dragon boat races on TV. I enjoyed the holiday very much. In a word, I'm sure you will enjoy yourself here. He is very popular in our school because he is polite to everyone.  Of all kinds of movies, I like comedies best. I think they're interesting. My favorite actor is Jackie. I like his movie King of Comedy. I think it's a successful comedy. For action movies, I like The Lord of the Ring best. It's exciting. I like documentaries because they're true stories. I like only some thrillers. Many thrillers are scary and boring. My favorite memory of my dad is that he always wants to keep me from making mistakes but he tries to let me find my own way, even though his heart breaks in silence when I get hurt.  As for my dream, I want to be a teacher; I'll make friends with my kids. I have a good weekend. On Saturday morning, I do my homework. After lunch, I go shopping with my mother. At about five o'clock, I go to play basketball with my friend. On Sunday, I watch a football game on TV. I often help my mother do housework. I watch TV with my parents in the evening. Then I go to bed at nine o'clock. I'm very happy The next morning, I found a piece of paper. It said, never give up, dear. I am proud of you! Like many other boys, I enjoy doing sports, but math's and science are my favorite. My favorite subject is English. I like it because it is interesting. I have English every day. I can speak a little English. I join the school English club. Every afternoon I go there to talk in English. I can see English movies and read English books. I think it is useful for me. I want to learn it well. I like English very much. I would be very thankful if you could give me the chance. As a student, I think I should always try my best to work for our school. Though she is busy, she studies hard and gets good grades. This is my best dad. I love him and I'm so proud of him. Although I am not the best now, I will make every effort to become a top student and I believe you will be proud of me. I imagine that she is not only young but also beautiful.  Hello, everyone! I don't like sports, but I like eating very much. I eat a lot food every day. For breakfast, I like milk, eggs and bread a lot. For lunch, I like French fries, chicken, hamburgers and apples. For dinner, I like fruits, vegetables and rice. Although I wasn't willing to do it, I still lent it to him because he was my best friend.  I am sure that I can be a good volunteer at the International Dragon Competition. After reading so many books, I get a lot of knowledge and also feel relaxed.  I get up early at six every day. After doing some morning exercises, I read English for twenty minutes. At seven I have breakfast. After breakfast I take my schoolbag and go to school. Our class begins at eight, and we have four classes in the morning. After lunch at 12 o'clock, I take a short rest in the classroom. We have three more classes in the afternoon. After school at five, I go back home. I often help my mother do some housework. Sometimes I watch TV. After dinner, I begin to do my homework. Then I take a shower. I go to bed at nine thirty. We are going to have some meaningful activities. To express thanks to our teachers, we each should say thankful words to our dear teachers.  It's a chance for you to learn more about Chinese traditional culture. Come and join us! I think we'll have a great time. Before you arrive, we will prepare a clean and bright room for you. It's really hard for me to say goodbye. I wish my school to have a better future. To begin with, we need to be clear about the location of the facilities.  I hope all of our younger schoolmates can live and study happily in our school. First of all, I will volunteer to do some cleaning with my classmates, such as cleaning the windows and sweeping the floor. To keep our school clean, we will ask our schoolmates not to litter at school. I am Very Grateful to My Mom Now, I'll graduate from middle school. I am very grateful to my mom because she has done much for me. I think words can't show my thanks to her.  My Classmate Liang Ling Liang Ling, a 15-year-old girl, is a student in Class 1, Grade 9. She comes from a poor family. Since she was a little girl, she has cared for her family. My New Head teacher How lucky I am to be his daughter! How time flies! Three years has passed. I will graduate from junior high school. I will enter a new school to study. What will my new head teacher be like? My mom is an excellent teacher and we are in the same school. She works hard and often goes back home very late. I remembered that once I was very worried about a quite hard problem from my homework. She helped me in time though she was too tired at night, and I was so thankful at that time. So my eyes were filled with tears.  I imagine that she/he is not only young but also beautiful/handsome. She/he may be both patient with us and kind to us. She/he is also strict with us. I hope she/he is outgoing. He can understand us and make friends with us. If she/he likes doing sports, we can play together after class. She can get more knowledge from her/him. She is great. Let's wish her a better future.  I would never forget it. From my mom, I got not only help but also the deep love. Thank you, my dear mom.  Every day Liang Ling helps with the cooking, cleaning and washing. I asked her whether she was tired of doing so much housework. “Not really.” She smiled. “I've got used to it.” Though she is busy, she studies hard and gets good grades. What's more, she is always ready to help others. Everyone likes her because of her kindness. In our eyes, she always faces difficulties bravely. No matter how hard the life is, she never gives up. I am looking forward to seeing her/him! I'm glad to hear that you're planning to travel around China during the summer vacation. I'd like to invite you to my hometown Fujian for a visit. Nowadays, reading is becoming more and more popular among us. You asked me about festivals in China. Let me introduce some important ones to you. Of all the suggested books, I have decided to choose Secrets of English Words and Time for Kids. I'd like to tell you something about the Chinese Dragon Boat Festival and how I spent it this year. The book I'd like to share with you is The Old Man and the Sea, written by an American writer Ernest Hemingway. If possible, you may watch Han Show. Hope you'll have fun here. Then, we'll invite you to our class and talk about school life. In a word, it's helpful for our society to do some charity. Many hands make light work. Take actions now to make our society more beautiful! Once, our community held an old thing fair to raise money for the homeless people. Whether We Can Use Mobile Phones How Can a Teenager Have a Successful Life? Grades are not everything our class has had a discussion about whether we can use mobile phones. I have recently done a survey about how a teenager can have a successful life. I don't think grades are important. Students have different abilities and some of them can't be measured by grades, such as creativity, abilities to communicate and act. Some students think it is good to use mobile phones because they can take photos with them in our daily life. They can also listen to music to relax themselves in free time. Besides, using mobile phones makes it easy to keep in touch with their parents and friends. Most students believe it's necessary to study hard. After all, study plays a key role in their life. They also agree they should respect their parents, who look after them every day. Besides, they're ready to serve the society and in their opinion it's really meaningful. What's more, they think each teenager is supposed to make a good plan for future. To start with, I wasn't good at English and seldom got high scores on the exams. But one day, my teacher encouraged me to perform in an English play because of my good pronunciation and lively expressions. To perform well, I studied my lines many times and even dressed up like the character. While we were performing, I could hear my classmates cheering. How excited! Later, my teacher praised me for my wonderful acting and this made me more confident and interested in English. But some others don't think so. They think students shouldn't use mobile phones. Using mobile phones too much is bad for their eyes and it's a waste of time to chat with friends. Sometimes some students use mobile phones to play games. It will have a bad effect on study. In my opinion, I think we'd better not use mobile phones. We should spend more time on our study instead of using mobile phones. All in all, grades can be a way to measure students' achievements in schoolwork. However, different interests and abilities can make a student's a full man. From my opinion of view, we need to make some good friends so that we can learn from each other. Also, we must be active and exercise more to keep healthy because it's important to a successful life. There is an activity about Chinese traditional operas at 2:00 p.m. on July 1. It will be held on the playground in our school and all the teachers and students will attend.

却没想到结婚当晚,邱云竟然发现他早在60年前就曾娶过她!这究竟是怎么回事?



两人的第一次相遇,还是在1937年,那时候她还没有改名为刘泽华,而是叫李德芳,刚刚20岁,年轻貌美,是四川宣汉县炉子村公认的“村花”,当时上门求亲的人很多,可她偏偏一个也没看上。

最后,还是她在部队里当司务长的表哥,给她介绍了一个年轻英俊的士官邱大明,两人第一次见面就觉得十分投缘,总有聊不完的话,两人交往了大半年,感情越来越好,因为邱大明父母早逝,两人便在李母的张罗下成了亲。

婚后,两人的生活也过得十分甜蜜,邱大明只要在家,就会包揽家里家外所有的活,对妻子也是十分体贴,甚至打好洗脸水,放在妻子的床前。

李德芳平日里自己省吃俭用,等丈夫回家的时候,她就好吃好喝地为丈夫补身体,丈夫临走前,她就把平日里为他准备的一些穿的用的,都让他带走,每次两人都是依依不舍地告别。
但这样甜蜜的生活只维持了4个月,李德芳就突然失去了丈夫的消息,后来她忧心忡忡地去他们部队打听,结果连她表哥的面都没见到,也没有得到什么消息,她只能返回村子,等丈夫回来找自己,等了一年又一年,却始终没有等到丈夫的归来,村里人都笑话她千挑万选的丈夫,结果被人家抛弃了。

此时母亲也病了,怕自己走后,剩下女儿一个人,没人照顾,就劝女儿:等这么多年了,他要是能回来早就回来了,你趁着年轻再往前走一步吧!“但李德芳却不为所动。

她在村中这一等就是17年,母亲离世,丈夫音讯全无,她的大好年华都在等待中度过了,于是她决定不等了,出去找丈夫。

她去了丈夫老家重庆,但找来找去,始终没有找到他一点音讯,她这时才彻底死心了,后来因为丈夫邱大明的身份问题,李德芳也不得不为自己改名换姓为刘泽华。
刘泽华在快40岁时,经过别人的介绍,嫁给了重庆当地的一户贫困人家,结婚几年他们始终没有孩子,最后两人商量领养了一对儿女,她和这个丈夫在一起走过了30多年的岁月,直到她75岁那年,丈夫也离世了,她又变成了孤零零的一个人。

后来,养子养女都劝她把房子卖了,搬去养子家里住,也方便照顾她,卖房子的钱分给了这对儿女。但在养子家中的那几年,她却过得并不开心,在80岁时,有一次与养子闹矛盾后,她就带着自己仅有的一点钱离家出走了。

结果钱很快花完了,她只能露宿街头,幸好有一个叫李腊芝的好心女人,把她带回了家,但刘泽华不好意思叨扰人家太久,几次想走,都被李腊芝拦了下来,后来她们在一起聊天时,李腊芝提出把她82岁的干爹邱云介绍给刘泽华,虽然干爹没钱没房,如今住在棚屋,但人品很好,他们一起能有个照应。

刘泽华觉得自己一把年龄,没有再找老伴的打算,但没几天李腊芝就把82岁的邱云带了过来,她看着对方有一种似曾相识的感觉,两人聊天也觉得十分投缘。

后来两人一来二去也熟悉了,邱云为人心细,每次见她都不空手,总是带些吃的、用的,这让刘泽华心里觉得很温暖,也有了在一起互相照顾的想法,而且她也不想一直在这里打扰人家。


于是两个老人请了桌饭,就算正式走到了一起,新婚当晚两个人有聊不完的话,还聊到了过去,当邱云听到她说,她老家是四川宣汉炉子村时,整颗心都为之一震,这让他又想起了去世几十年的妻子,想来自己跟那个村子有缘啊,如今80多岁竟然又娶了个炉子村的人。

邱云继续交谈着:那个村子里的人,不都姓李吗?你怎么姓刘呢?” 刘泽华说:“你也知道我们村啊,我以前姓李,后来离开那里就改名了。” 

邱云说:“那你以前叫啥啊? 刘泽华听他问起自己的名字,让她不由得想起自己年轻时的生活,略带感伤地说:“李德芳。 

“李德芳 这三个字,对邱云来说,冲击力实在太大了,那正是他去世几十年的妻子的名字,他一下子坐直了身体,仔细打量着刘泽华布满皱纹的脸庞,从眉眼之间似乎找出了当年妻子的影子,他终于明白为什么自己看到她第一眼就觉得眼熟,原来她正是他60年前的妻子啊!

他一瞬间老泪纵横,激动地说:“德芳啊,我是邱大明啊!你还记得我吗?”  刘泽华突然听到邱大明”这个名字,一时间懵住了,问他:你是邱大明?当年跟我结婚的那个邱大明吗?

看到邱云泪眼模糊地点着头,刘泽华也忍不住啦,一下子哭了起来,“当年你去哪儿了?我怎么都找不到你?”
两个老人的新婚第一天,聊了整整一夜,才把当年的过往说清楚,原来邱大明当年所在的部队,突然收到紧急命令,包括邱大明在内的所有人都连夜离开了四川,奔赴上海,参加了淞沪会战,大家都没机会告知家人消息,所以才会音讯全无。

邱大明本以为这次打仗跟以前一样,用不了多久,就可以回来,却没想到此次与妻子一别竟然就是60年。


当年的那场战事犹为惨烈,邱大明算是幸运地活了下来,没多久又开始了长沙会战,他因为身受重伤,而无法继续留在部队作战,就退役了。

他退役后,又去了水上警察学院,当时给妻子寄了很多信,都像石沉大海一样,没有回音,其实是因为战争原因,妻子根本没收到他的信。

毕业后他被分配到泸县工作,因为工作原因走不开,他便花钱托人把妻子和岳母都带到泸县来,结果那人回来后,却告诉了邱大明一个噩耗,他的妻子和岳母都被炸死了,邱大明听后悲痛万分,他不敢想象自己与妻子竟然永远地分开了,他为此伤心了很多年,才接受了这个事实。

几年后,在别人的介绍下,他跟当地的一个女孩结婚了,还生下了一儿一女。后来邱大明因为身份问题,被关押起来,直到20多年后才被放回来,还给了他3000元的安家费。

当他回到泸县时,妻子早已改嫁,儿女也都长大成人了,对他很陌生,年过半年的他无处可去,就把大部分钱给了儿女,自己则改了名字,独自回到了老家重庆。


本就一身伤病的他,也干不了什么体力活,又没有什么养家活口的技术,就只能住在棚户区,靠捡破烂为生,一个人又生活了20多年,幸好认了个干女儿李腊芝,常过来看望他。

后来还要给他介绍个小他两岁的刘泽华,他一开始也是不同意的, 觉得自己过得这么困难,不是害人家呢嘛,但干女儿一再让他去家里坐坐,只是见个面,他也就去了,结果一见面就觉得刘泽华长得面熟,很有好感,却没想到竟然是他去世几十年的妻子。
兜兜转转60年,他们两个少年夫妻,竟然跳过了整个人生,老年才得以重逢,她们只能紧紧握着彼此的手,感叹着命运对他们的捉弄,邱云后悔着当年自己就应该放下一切来找她,也不会让她苦苦等了那么多年。


如今两人再度重逢,除了死亡,再也没什么可以让他们分开了。

他们俩又相互照顾着生活了10多年,靠着国家给的补贴生存,尽管两个人都有病在身,但邱大明却只给刘泽华买药,自己一身的病痛,就忍一忍就过去了。

在2005年,88岁的刘泽华瘫痪在床,90岁的邱大明对她不离不弃,每天照顾着她的吃喝拉撒,陪她谈天说笑,直到2009年,刘泽华离世,享年92岁。


邱云像几十年前一样,又经历了一次爱妻离世的悲痛,第一次他花了好几年才走出悲痛,而这次他只用了短短20天就解脱了,因为这一次他也随着她离开了,享年94岁。

他们去世后,按照他们生前的遗愿,合葬在了一起,从此他们只有相聚,再无分离!


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