——秦东魁
It may seem like we are deceiving others, but in reality, we are deceiving ourselves. Even the smallest actions can cause others to look down on us. We shouldn’t think that actions like eating or walking are small things and ignore "elders first, younger ones later." Our respect for our parents shows in every detail, every small act.
We can’t demand anything from others; we must first demand it from ourselves. If everyone practices it correctly, your actions will influence your neighbors.
In our village, I did such an experiment, and it moved the entire community. Every year, on my mother’s birthday, no matter where I am, I would go back to celebrate with her. This action has inspired many of our neighbors' children to return home for their parents' birthdays.
——Qin Dongkui
他人に要求することはできないが、自分自身には最初に要求するべきだ。一人一人がその行動を実践すると、あなたの行動は近隣の人々に影響を与える。
私は眉県でこのような実験を行い、コミュニティ全体が変化した。毎年、母の誕生日にはどこにいても必ず帰って祝う。私のこの行動が、近隣の多くの外出している子供たちに影響を与え、親の誕生日に家に帰って祝うようになった。
