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千万别老去说教别人，为别人瞎操心，哪怕是自家亲人也不行。人家活了这么多年形成的想法，哪能你说几句话就给改过来？人啊，不是被叫醒的，得被现实刺痛了才会清醒。你多管人家一分，人家就多怨你一分。所以说，别管别人咋样，多操心自己的事。这世上最难的有两件事，一是把别人的钱赚到自己手里，二是把自己的想法灌进别人的脑子里。头一件事伤了别人的财路，后一件事触了别人的底线。
Never keep preaching to others or worry unnecessarily about them, not even your own relatives. The ideas they've formed over so many years can't be changed just by a few words from you. People don't wake up because of others' persuasion. They only become sober when they are stung by reality. The more you interfere in others' affairs, the more they will resent you. So, don't concern yourself with what others are doing and focus more on your own business. There are two of the most difficult things in the world. One is to make others' money your own, and the other is to instill your own ideas into others' minds. The first thing harms others' financial resources, and the second thing touches others' bottom line.
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别妄图改变别人的想法，那比登天还难。亲人也好，朋友也罢，每个人都有自己的思维定式。你苦口婆心，在别人耳里或许只是唠叨。人这一辈子，能管好自己就不错了。与其费尽心思去扭转别人，不如好好经营自己的生活。当你专注自身，不断提升，那些曾经纠结的人和事，都会渐渐变得渺小。毕竟，自己的人生舞台，自己才是主角。
Don't try in vain to change others' ideas. It's even more difficult than ascending to heaven. Whether they are relatives or friends, everyone has their own mindset. Your well-intentioned advice may just be nagging in others' ears. In one's lifetime, it's good enough to manage oneself well. Instead of racking your brains to change others, it's better to manage your own life well. When you focus on yourself and keep improving, those people and things that once bothered you will gradually become insignificant. After all, on the stage of your own life, you are the protagonist.
