认知症长者在遇到不顺心的事情时,有时会做出烦躁或愤怒的反应(沮丧)。这种情况可能主要发生在认知症的早期阶段。本期科普,带你走进认知症的世界,学习如何减少认知症患者的烦躁感,防止其恶化……
认知症长者有时会出其不意地冲着他们的亲人发火,或者在接受帮忙的时候做出烦躁的反应。如果发现这种情况,一定要及时处理,越早采取行动越好。
首先,最重要的是了解这些强烈反应的来源。患上认知症后,长者会感到非常失落,尤其是意识到自己的病情不会好转时。这可能会导致对自己患病感到悲伤,并可能将这些情绪发泄到身边的人身上。然而,疾病本身也会让人变得易怒。当大脑部分受损时,长者可能会表现出不同的行为,即使并不喜欢对亲人发火,但在得到关心时,依然不受控制地表现出烦躁。
认真对待认知症长者的情绪问题:
当面讨论解决可能会很困难,尤其是当认知症长者难以表达清楚问题时,要冷静应对并给予理解。如果一时无法做到(这也是人之常情),请暂时避免这种情况。
了解产生挫败情绪的因素:
试着确定是否有特定的原因引发长者的挫败感。因为无聊?还是因为环境太吵?人太多?把能让他们放松的活动或情况与会引起激动或愤怒的活动或情况列成清单。
考虑在家中进行实际调整:
有时,一个切实可行的解决方案可以消除沮丧的根源。如果打电话很困难,可以考虑使用辅助设备,比如带有所有联系人照片的易用手机(请参阅本系列下一篇“失智症长者安全舒适地生活”一章中的其他提示)。
协助亲人完成简单的活动: 让长者参与一些活动,如一起种植树苗、叠衣服或做其他有能力做的事情。这有助于提升他们的参与感和价值感。
确保安静稳定的状态:突如其来的紧迫感会使长者不知所措。如果他们在一件事情上多花费点时间应该得到理解。
体育锻炼也很重要:呼吸新鲜空气和一起散步能给人带来积极的感觉,即使是在潜意识层面。
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Dealing with Irritation and Frustration in Dementia
People with dementia can sometimes react with irritation or anger when things don't go their way (frustration). This can happen in the early stages, but it can also occur in someone who has been living with dementia for a long time. What can you do to reduce the feeling of irritation in the person with dementia? And how can you prevent it from getting worse?
Cause of Irritation and Frustration in Dementia
People with dementia may sometimes snap at their loved ones unexpectedly or react irritably when you only want to help. If you notice this, it is important to address it. The sooner you take action, the better.
First and foremost, it's important to understand where these intense reactions come from. Having dementia is not easy. You can feel very lost, especially if you realize that you will not get better. This can lead to sadness about being ill, and you might take out these feelings on those close to you.
However, the disease itself can also make someone irritable. When parts of your brain are damaged, you may exhibit different behavior, even if you don't want to. This can happen even if you care deeply for the other person.
Recognizing Frustration and Irritation
Irritated behavior is often easy to recognize, such as snapping or saying something mean. Frustration, the emotion you feel when something doesn't work out, is harder to identify. The following examples can be recognized as frustration:
· Getting upset over mistakes and memory problems
· Crying over things that previously weren’t important
· Defending oneself and blaming others for things that go wrong
· Snapping and frequently being grumpy
· Picking fights and criticizing others a lot
· Getting angry at noise or too much activity. Note: Noise or activity can really be overwhelming for people with dementia
What Can You Do About Irritation and Frustration Due to Dementia?
· Take the Feelings of the Person with Dementia Seriously: It can be difficult to talk about it together, especially when dementia makes it hard for them to express what is wrong. Respond calmly and with understanding. If you can't manage that at the moment (which is very human), step away from the situation for a while.
· Identify Triggers of Frustration: Try to determine if there are specific moments that trigger feelings of frustration. Is it boredom? Or is it due to an overwhelming environment with too much noise and too many people? Keep a list of activities or situations that bring relaxation versus those that cause agitation or anger.
· Consider Practical Adjustments at Home: Sometimes, a practical solution can eliminate the source of frustration. If making phone calls is difficult, consider using an assistive device, such as an easy-to-use phone with photos of all contacts (look at other tips in the chapter: ‘Checklist: Safe and Comfortable Living at Home with Dementia’).
· Ask Your Loved One to Help with a Simple Task: Engage in activities like planting seedlings together, folding laundry, or doing other tasks they can still manage. This helps reinforce a sense of control and usefulness.
· Ensure You’re Not Rushed: Feeling rushed can increase frustration in others. Is it really a problem if something takes a bit longer?
· Physical Activity Remains Important: Getting fresh air and going for a walk together can provide a positive feeling, even if it's on a subconscious level.
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