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生活就是这样，别人看的是结果，而自己撑的是整个过程。
Life is like this. Others see the results, but you support the whole process.
万事不必说透，装不知道也是一种体面。
You don't have to say everything, and pretending not to know is also a kind of decent.
执念这个东西，一旦放下，再重要的人，都变得无所谓了。
Once the obsession is put down, no matter how important the person is, it becomes indifferent.
尊严这种东西，你得有实力捍卫，否则那就是死要面子活受罪。
You have to have the strength to defend dignity, otherwise you will die for face and suffer.
任何关系走到最后，不过是相识一场，有心者有所累，无心者无所谓，不负遇见，不谈亏欠。
Any relationship to the end is just an acquaintance. Those who have a heart are tired, and those who have no intention don't care. Don't live up to the encounter, and don't talk about debts.
无所求必满载而归，心有期待则事易落空。
If you don't want anything, you will come back full, and if you have expectations, things are easy to fail.
