38-year-old woman’s marriage requirements stir debate online

企业   2024-10-16 08:38   菲律宾  

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A 38-year-old unmarried woman recently sparked heated discussions online after sharing her experience from a blind date. In a video, she revealed that her potential suitor rejected her after she laid out five conditions for marriage, claiming her demands were too high. She then posed the question to viewers: "Are my conditions really that unreasonable?"

The woman's five conditions, which quickly gained attention, were as follows:

  1. A dowry of 300,000 yuan (around $41,000). Additionally, after marriage, the husband should not come home later than 10 p.m. If he does so more than five times, the marriage will end amicably, and the dowry will not be refunded.

  2. If the husband cheats, the marriage will end amicably, the dowry will not be refunded, and he must pay 100,000 yuan in emotional damages.

  3. She will not be responsible for taking care of his parents if they fall ill. She asserted that this responsibility belongs to him, and if he insists she takes on this duty, the marriage will end, and the dowry will not be refunded.

  4. The husband must hand over his entire salary, with only 1,000 yuan per month left for his personal expenses. Failure to comply would result in divorce, with the dowry being retained.

  5. She does not enjoy socializing. If she does not wish to attend family gatherings, she should not be forced. If her husband pressures her, they would divorce, with no return of the dowry.


Video

In her video, the woman expressed frustration, stating that men have rejected her multiple times due to these demands. She argued that her conditions are designed to protect the interests of women in marriage and criticized men for not being able to meet what she considers reasonable expectations.

The video quickly went viral, attracting widespread commentary from netizens. Some found her demands excessive, with one user sarcastically commenting, “She could have just taken the dowry, salary, house, and car - how considerate that she’s even negotiating.” Another remarked, “Not high at all, hang in there for a few more years, and it still won’t be high.”

Others poked fun at her future prospects, saying, “With conditions like that, you’ll stay single until you’re 108!” Another user joked, “You’re so eloquent and beautiful, 300,000 is too little - ask for another 300,000!”




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