看过一段话,深有感触:
人这一生,总是在等。等将来、等不忙、等下次;等有时间、等有条件、等有钱了。
等到最后,等没了健康,等没了机会,等没了选择;等来了遗憾,等来了后悔。
人最大的错误就是认为自己有时间。
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最近网络上疯传一个 Youtube上的演讲,短短不到五分钟的视频,却扎了无数人的心。
视频中,演讲者 Jay Shetty 给我们算了一笔时间账:
《Youth》Youth is not a time of life; it is a stateof mind. It is not a matter of rosy cheeks, red lips and supple knees. It is amatter of the will, a quality of the imagination, vigor of the emotions; it isthe freshness of the deep spring of life.Youth means a temperamental predominance ofcourage over timidity, of the appetite for adventure over the love of ease.This often exits in a man of 60, more than a boy of 20.nobody grows merely bythe number of years; we grow old by deserting our ideas. Years may wrinkle theskin, but to give up enthusiasm wrinkles the soul. Worry, fear, self-distrust1bows the heart and turns the spirit back to dust.Whether 60 or 16, there is in every humanbeing’s heart the lure of wonders, the unfailing childlike appetite of what’snext and the joy of the game of living. In the center of your heart and myheart there is a wireless station; so long as it receives messages of beauty,hope, cheer, courage and power from men and from infinite, so long as you areyoung.When the aerials are down, and your spiritis covered with the snows of cynicism and the ice of pessimism, then you’vegrown old, even at 20, but as long as your aerials are up, to catch waves ofoptimism, there’s hope you may die young at 80.Youth is not a time of life; it is a stateof mind. It is a matter of the will, a quality of the imagination, vigor of theemotions; it is the freshness of the deep spring of life. These are what I haveand what we have at this period of life. So, I\\'m still young, yes, definitely !Come on my fellow friends, show your energy and passion to this god damn world! Let the universe hear our voice, see our cheek, hug our enthusiasm andwitness our maturity. We\\'re going to create a brand new future! 《Youth》Youth is not a time of life; it is a stateof mind. It is not a matter of rosy cheeks, red lips and supple knees. It is amatter of the will, a quality of the imagination, vigor of the emotions; it isthe freshness of the deep spring of life.Youth means a temperamental predominance ofcourage over timidity, of the appetite for adventure over the love of ease.This often exits in a man of 60, more than a boy of 20.nobody grows merely bythe number of years; we grow old by deserting our ideas. Years may wrinkle theskin, but to give up enthusiasm wrinkles the soul. Worry, fear, self-distrust1bows the heart and turns the spirit back to dust.Whether 60 or 16, there is in every humanbeing’s heart the lure of wonders, the unfailing childlike appetite of what’snext and the joy of the game of living. In the center of your heart and myheart there is a wireless station; so long as it receives messages of beauty,hope, cheer, courage and power from men and from infinite, so long as you areyoung.When the aerials are down, and your spiritis covered with the snows of cynicism and the ice of pessimism, then you’vegrown old, even at 20, but as long as your aerials are up, to catch waves ofoptimism, there’s hope you may die young at 80.Youth is not a time of life; it is a stateof mind. It is a matter of the will, a quality of the imagination, vigor of theemotions; it is the freshness of the deep spring of life. These are what I haveand what we have at this period of life. So, I\\'m still young, yes, definitely !Come on my fellow friends, show your energy and passion to this god damn world! Let the universe hear our voice, see our cheek, hug our enthusiasm andwitness our maturity. We\\'re going to create a brand new future!
如果人平均一生的寿命是 78 年。
那我们花 28.3 年睡觉,占据了三分之一的时间;
按一天 8 小时算,我们要花 10.5 年工作,并且有 50% 的人想要逃离;
花在电视和社交媒体的时间竟然也占据了 9.5 年;
加上吃饭、带孩子等七七八八的时间花费,留给我们自己真正主动支配的时间,其实只有短短 9 年而已。
9 年,3285 天,78840 小时。
你看,没那么多往后余生,能被你浪费了。
毕淑敏有一句话说得很有道理:
“如果你有愿望,如果你真的还有力量去实行它,我觉得你一定要即刻就出发,去完成自己的愿望,让自己更少地遗憾。”
现在有什么想做的事情,就即刻去做吧。
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总以为岁月漫漫,有的是时间挥霍等待;总以为明天很多,很多事不必急于一时,很多人无需立刻相见。
那些来不及做的事,来不及爱的人,来不及说的话,到了生命尽头,都将成为一辈子的遗憾。
也许,就在你转身的那个刹那,有些人,就再也见不到了。
就如同嵇康在死前感慨:
“袁孝尼一直想学习《广陵散》,我以为来日方长,一直执意不肯教他,而今我这一走,《广陵散》从此绝矣。”
人生真的没有那么多来日方长!
而所谓的“岁月长”,不过是日复一日、年复一年波澜不惊的生活,让人生出的错觉罢了。
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有本书里这样写道:“漂亮的衣服等等再穿,好玩的地方要准备好了再去,总把希望寄托在以后,日子一天天地过去,生活没有任何改变。原来是我疏忽了,哪有那么多未来啊,有的只是现在!”
未来固然重要,只是错失太多现在的人,想必未来也不会相遇太多美好了吧。握不住的。
别再等来日方长,因为朋友不会停留,趁着大家都在,想聚就聚。
别再等来日方长,因为时间不会等你,趁着趁时光正好,想旅游就去。
生命来来往往,来日并不方长。
愿此生我们都能拼过命、尽过兴,不负岁月!
观自在菩萨,行深般若波罗蜜多时,照见五蕴皆空,度一切苦厄。舍利子,色不异空,空不异色,色即是空,空即是色,受想行识,亦复如是。舍利子,是诸法空相,不生不灭,不垢不净,不增不减。是故空中无色,无受想行识,无眼耳鼻舌身意,无色声香味触法,无眼界,乃至无意识界,无无明,亦无无明尽,乃至无老死,亦无老死尽。无苦集灭道,无智亦无得。以无所得故。菩提萨埵,依般若波罗蜜多故,心无挂碍。无挂碍故,无有恐怖,远离颠倒梦想,究竟涅盘。三世诸佛,依般若波罗蜜多故,得阿耨多罗三藐三菩提。故知般若波罗蜜多,是大神咒,是大明咒,是无上咒,是无等等咒,能除一切苦,真实不虚。故说般若波罗蜜多咒,即说咒曰:揭谛揭谛,波罗揭谛,波罗僧揭谛,菩提萨婆诃。观自在菩萨,行深般若波罗蜜多时,照见五蕴皆空,度一切苦厄。舍利子,色不异空,空不异色,色即是空,空即是色,受想行识,亦复如是。舍利子,是诸法空相,不生不灭,不垢不净,不增不减。
观自在菩萨,行深般若波罗蜜多时,照见五蕴皆空,度一切苦厄。舍利子,色不异空,空不异色,色即是空,空即是色,受想行识,亦复如是。舍利子,是诸法空相,不生不灭,不垢不净,不增不减。是故空中无色,无受想行识,无眼耳鼻舌身意,无色声香味触法,无眼界,乃至无意识界,无无明,亦无无明尽,乃至无老死,亦无老死尽。无苦集灭道,无智亦无得。以无所得故。菩提萨埵,依般若波罗蜜多故,心无挂碍。无挂碍故,无有恐怖,远离颠倒梦想,究竟涅盘。三世诸佛,依般若波罗蜜多故,得阿耨多罗三藐三菩提。故知般若波罗蜜多,是大神咒,是大明咒,是无上咒,是无等等咒,能除一切苦,真实不虚。故说般若波罗蜜多咒,即说咒曰:揭谛揭谛,波罗揭谛,波罗僧揭谛,菩提萨婆诃。观自在菩萨,行深般若波罗蜜多时,照见五蕴皆空,度一切苦厄。舍利子,色不异空,空不异色,色即是空,空即是色,受想行识,亦复如是。舍利子,是诸法空相,不生不灭,不垢不净,不增不减。
愿,所有的爱,都还来得及;愿,所有的等待,都不被辜负。