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苹果不去想橘子的问题
有趣的事不和敷衍的人提
The fear of being hated is the source of a person'spain.
害怕被人讨厌，是一个人痛苦的根源。
Adler once said, "lt is the pursuit of recognitionthat kills freedom.Because l didn't want to behated by anyone, l chose an unfree lifestyle."
阿德勒曾说:“对认可的追求，才扼杀了自由。由于不想被任何人讨厌，才选择了不自由的生活方式。”
Many times, we pay too much attention to theevaluation of the outside world,and do nothesitate to hide the edge, smooth the edges andcorners, but also to set into the rules set by others.
很多时候，我们太关注外界的评价，不惜隐藏锋芒磨平棱角，也要套进别人设定的条条框框。
Life is like this, no matter how perfect you are,there are people who pick and choose;生活就是这样，无论你多完美，都有人挑三拣四
"You hate me, it has nothing to do with me.You don't like me, and l don't care.“你讨厌我，与我无关。你不喜欢我，我也不在乎。”
No longer deliberately welcome, no longersuppress yourself.
不再刻意逢迎，不再压抑自己
When you start to treat yourself and otherssincerely,you can have a real and freerelationship.
当你开始善待自己，真诚待人，你才能收获一段真实而自由的关系。
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